Out of TT & BA and Pissed

I hate when obese people play the victim card. I was raised by a strict Vegan. I got fat from eating. If you had not gotten fat from eating WLS would have never helped you lose weight. We over ate! End of story - you can spin it anyway you want but the responsibility falls back on us. You  have to admit sometime in your life that you made choices. Whatever you believe, your expectations have to match your reality. 26 years old or 18.!you lost over 100 lbs your body is going to show the results of that weight loss. Unfortunately, our punishment or lot in life is to always have the evidence of our past choices. Scars, stretch marks or whatever it may be. As adults we learn to adjust - pull up our adults undies or in your case your one piece swimsuit and go on with life. You are healthy. You survived WLS and plastic surgery without life threatening complications.!wearing a one piece will not kill you.?  

I saw the bikini pic on your profile and you look great, stretch marks and all, tanning them helps a lot.  I wear a bikini all summer and love it. 

I am so sorry, I totally understand the stretch mark horror, but as you said you expected they would move down, mine did but I still have some on my stomach.  But I am 49 with a son nearly your age so my expectations for my body are not the same as yours.  I am not sure how your surgeon managed to do a tt and move your bb but not get those marks to move.  I feel bad for you, I read your profile and looked at your pics and your totally beautiful, seriously gorgeous, MO ***** with us but you need to look past those marks and see how beautiful you are, inside and out.