TMI, but I'm having trouble achieving ****** after mons lift

I am 4.5-mos post op tummy tuck and mons lift. I have been having trouble achieving a clitoral ****** since my surgery. My surgeon, Dr. Capella, told me that none of his patients have ever told him this, that on the contrary they've told him it makes things better. Yet, I know another patient who is having the same problem. Has anyone else had this problem and how long did it take to resolve? Did your surgeon give you a reason why this happened?

Drives me crazy... my drive is through the roof and yet I cannot get satisfied.

Apologies to those ladies I've made blush. 

 

Try posting this on the Sex before and after forum

Thank you!

definitely not me! it's only been once since surgery, we're working on finding time to see each other again it just doesn't seem to be working out, but i came in under 5 minutes. he was like really? already? lol

Good for you! 

It must be driving you crazy to wait that long. Your surgery was quite a while ago. Those six weeks for me to wait were killer. Everything else regarding sexual pleasure has been enhanced -- ALOT. So why the heck can't I have a clitoral ******!?! A poster on the sex forum said her plastic surgeon said it was rare but that there could be nerve damage from the mons lift. My surgeon told me that he did not touch any of those nerves. 

I'd still do it over in a heartbeat. I would trade my ugly FUPA for a tight one even if it means it takes me forever to climax (or not even reach climax).

I think it was just shy of 6 weeks when we finally saw each other. Then life got in the way, then a huge fight, and now life is in the way again so it's been like 6 weeks again! Lol. You would think he lives much further away then an hour but having busy lives makes it rough.