Just scheduled a consult

Why do I feel so petrified?  Almost 5 years out, maintaining a 130 pound weight loss.  I've seen this doctor's work on a couple of people and it is amazing.  Yet, I am terrified and am not even sure why I'm doing this!  Breathing.  Just a consult for a tummy tuck.  I go next Wednesday.

Congratulations on your 5 year success.  I too have been in the consultation process.  I think, for me, it is the idea that I am "electing" to put myself through this.  From what everyone on this site has been sharing, it is a tough recovery process.  Everyone here I so incredibly helpful with quickly answering questions.  I believe it has given me a much better perspective on what I am facing.  I'm glad I started coming here because I realize I was naive about what I will be facing.

I know the feeling.  I told my DH when I got my RNY that I would have a tummy tuck in my future.  Turns out I had a little more with a lower body lift and a breast lift.  I wasn't that unhappy with my body, but I spent the money and did it anyway.  I love my flat tummy, but I'm still in a binder and compression garment so I feel like I'm not getting the "full impact."  I keep telling myself that it takes time.  It is a tough recovery.  I haven't had any complications, it just takes time to recover.  I definitely go back and forth with buyer's remorse.  

In the big scheme of things, I'm happy I did it.  It is like closure, finally saying goodbye to my obesity.  The flatness of the tummy really is awesome.  

Do what is right for you!

Kay 

How long ago did you have your lift?  Do you have to wear the binder ALL the time? 

I'm am 3.5 weeks out from surgery.  I wear my binder all the time except to shower.  My doctor wants me to wear it for at least 6 weeks.

Kay

And, please tell me, what do you see when you look in the mirror and you're binder is off?  Are you happy with the results yet?

I'm happy with my tummy. I have to say the jury is still out regarding my breast lift, and butt. I like the lift part of my breasts, but I'm not sure about the scar. My butt is practically gone. I'm used to having a major booty. Healing takes time it can take 6 months or more before final results.

Kay

 I have already had my first consult and will have my second one thursday.  I was not fearful because I went with my daughter when she had hers with the same doctor.  So I kind of had a heads up on what to expect.  However, this one Thursday is a new doctor, so will probably be totally different.  I am still not scared.  
I am scared about the pain and long term recovery.  I took care of my daughter during her recovery and it was rough.  But she says she would do it over again, so I guess it was worth it to her.  

Hope I don't chicken out.