Sex appeal...something you have or something you do??

waitinggame
on 2/7/12 8:46 pm - Bowie, MD

It did make me very sad for her. I thought if he is that brazen in front of her, good Lord what must he do when she isn't around! I'm guessing that wedding ring falls right into his pocket and it's game on. It is the epitome of disrespectful. I dated a guy years ago that was a woman gawker right in front of me. I was heavy then. Broke my heart every time. Eventually we broke up, but it took a toll on my self-esteem for sure.

I guess I was always the one envying the women (and quietly hating them for some unknown reason-probably that mouthy boyfriend of mine) that everyone stared at and surely never thought I'd be one.

Thanks!

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RNY 2/3/09, LBL/BL w/Augmentation 9/16/11
Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!

*6.5 lost preop

Constantine
on 2/7/12 11:07 pm

I think its confidence and your attitude. You have a great smile and you look fantastic. I imagine you looked the same way overweight.

Even when I was overweight I tended to dress sexy (when I went out, not at work) and flirt. Just my personality. I'm generally happy, and even happier after a drink. Now that I have lost weight I feel that confidence tenfold, and working out has increased it - it makes me feel invinceable. I think that translates.

Its a good, powerful feeling, and it sounds like you know your place with it - you are happily married and you state that. So as long as the people around you know it, you should feel good about yourself!!! Enjoy it.

waitinggame
on 2/8/12 1:53 am - Bowie, MD

Thank you. "Even happier after a drink." Boy do I know about that one!! LOL! I was always a big flirt when I was heavy, but I knew most people would never reciprocate so it felt "safe". I think I am still learning that the same flirty, fun demeanor may be taken very differently when you are in a different package.

It does feel good to not be burdened with the pain of self conciousness and to finally be free from feeling uncomfortable in my own skin.

Thanks again for the feedback!

Check out my blog--menumealplanning.com. Tales of making meal planning managable, family fodder, and everything else under the sun.

RNY 2/3/09, LBL/BL w/Augmentation 9/16/11
Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!

*6.5 lost preop

dasie
on 2/8/12 2:37 am

RNY on 11/17/09

You have him pegged for sure....the kind of guy who takes his band off when he goes on business trips.

(deactivated member)
on 2/7/12 11:12 pm

VSG on 03/03/09

Bonus check is in the mail.

waitinggame
on 2/8/12 1:54 am - Bowie, MD

You must be using the pony express because it sure is taking a long time for those checks to get here!! LOL!

Check out my blog--menumealplanning.com. Tales of making meal planning managable, family fodder, and everything else under the sun.

RNY 2/3/09, LBL/BL w/Augmentation 9/16/11
Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!

*6.5 lost preop

(deactivated member)
on 2/10/12 1:58 am

VSG on 03/03/09

Something I would happily buy, for myself if someone else didn't get half my income geez laweez.

waitinggame
on 2/10/12 4:30 am - Bowie, MD

I don't know that purchasing it is an option, however, if it becomes an option, I know a few people who would like some so maybe you can get some sort of group groupie groupon discount! Oh, and 1/2 of nothing is still nothing! That's what she said!!

Check out my blog--menumealplanning.com. Tales of making meal planning managable, family fodder, and everything else under the sun.

RNY 2/3/09, LBL/BL w/Augmentation 9/16/11
Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!

*6.5 lost preop

(deactivated member)
on 2/12/12 11:00 pm

VSG on 03/03/09

I don't know if I can purchase anything now, still licking my wounds from the casino the other night. Oh, and 1/2 of nothing is still nothing! did you figure that out on your own or wha****er wet, sky blue does that help you out any champ.

waitinggame
on 2/13/12 10:37 am - Bowie, MD

Leave the licking to Bacchus--seems he knows how to get the job done. You are the mathmagician, not me, Mr. 81 million beat figure outer. Sky blue if no clouds. Water only wet if you touch it. Fire hot. Grog still not sure what use for.

Champ better than loser...

Check out my blog--menumealplanning.com. Tales of making meal planning managable, family fodder, and everything else under the sun.

RNY 2/3/09, LBL/BL w/Augmentation 9/16/11
Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!

*6.5 lost preop

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