Sex after TT & BL/BA ..

Okay.. really asking on my hubby's behalf.. how soon were you able to do anything close to intimacy post TT & BL/BA?

Thanks,

For my TT - it was 6 to 8 weeks.  Of course, I wasn't swinging from the chandlers!

 I waited 6 weeks to be honest it was months before I enjoyed it again 

Thank you for asking that question..I was wondering that too.  2 weeks after my TT in Jan is our 10th anniversary and my husband wanted to plan a get away but I thought we should wait..ad now hearing the answers, I am sure of it...so thanks for asking!
Patty

My hubby and I just had our 11th anniversary.. I know the feeling..

Michelle

Honestly? About 3 days. I had my lbl, arms and boobs done on 12/12 (last Monday!). 

I wasn't doing much but laying there, but we are a 2 - 3 times per day couple and missed that intimacy. It didn't hurt and while I didn't have as much sensation as my normal vigorous self would have, just being able to be intimate helped so much with my mood and energy level. We've had sex a few times this week. Also, don't forget about manual and oral stimulation, as well. 

We are careful that if ANYTHING hurts or pulls, we stop and assess. I'm sure we're at the far end of the "too soon" bell curve.

Bethany

Bethany,

I think I will stick with the 6 weeks thing..After the RNY, I waited 2 or 3weeks..I cant remember anymore.... I am 40 yrs old and work 12 hour days.. I only I do that frequently is pee and eat! :) 

Michelle

I think I was cleared for all activity at 6 weeks, but waited until the 8 week mark (my boyfriend lives out of town so I would not let him visit until the 8 week mark). Me on top or him from behind worked best at first. I had a full lbl so laying on my back was a no-go for me. I was terrified of splitting my incision from rubbing it on the bed and there was no way in hell I was risking messing up my results. It too****il the 4 month mark for me to be able to relax and fully enjoy sex again (without the fear of being ripped in half).

Laura