Just saw my boyfriend~ 1st time since plastics
I've known him for 20+ years (we were best friends in college), and we've been back together 2 years now. He has loved me thin, fat, thin with floppy skin, and now thin with scars. He's so wonderful. Nothing between us was any different, because he has always been wonderful towards me. What was different was that I am no longer self-conscious about walking around naked in front of him. It felt so liberating!! My thighs are still a mess and my boobs are not the best, but at the age of 45, I finally feel good in my own skin.
Laura
Laura in Texas
53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)
RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis
brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco
"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."
My husband is alot the same way. He really didn't care if I did the plastics or not. But for me...it was my reward! So glad you had a great visit. Isn't it the best feeling to finally feel confident?
This is the first time for me...actually as long as I can remember that I too feel confident. I can't wait till we are totally healed and can really enjoy life post plastics. I know it will only get better over the next couple of months.
Glad you have a man just like mine who has loved you fat, thin with loose skin, and thin with incision lines.
We are both truly blessed!
And yes you are BEAUTIFUL, I thought that even of your before photos! Have a great week. 
How wonderful to have someone love you for YOU!!
"I finally feel good in my own skin." .... Awesome!! Can you say the forbidden words..."flat tummy"??
And inspiring...my nerves are shot and I really needed to read this right now!
My TT is scheduled for Friday... I am soo nervous but looking forward to being able to walk around naked and not self conscious in front of ME! lol I'm 53 and have begun to have thoughts of... Am I being rediculous... I have had this horrible body for so long its almost ...ALMOST, but not quite, scary to think I might be happy with the way I look in the mirror...
Guess I'm having pre-TT jitters! YIKES!!!!!!!
Jane
Jane Ganly
So happy for you!!
Denise
Check out my blog--menumealplanning.com. Tales of making meal planning managable, family fodder, and everything else under the sun.
RNY 2/3/09, LBL/BL w/Augmentation 9/16/11
Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!
*6.5 lost preop
So happy for you! Another one of the lucky ladies to have that UNCONDITIONAL love!!!!!
I hope you threww him some bones!!!LOL!!!!
Carmen
Nov 10,2009 I reached GOALL BYE BYE 130 POUNDS! It wasn't about the FOOD, it was about what was eating at YOU! Time for a Head adjustment! **July 2011 Plastic Surgery Lower Body Lift
Exercise 
is not a LUXURY!
Exercise is a 
NECESSITY
and Happy Belated Birthday...
