sex???

ericaFG
on 8/6/11 1:26 am - Cambridge, Canada
My husband had trouble looking at me when I first had my TT - with all the drains and bandages, he was kind of grossed out.  He got over it but...

But with my BL - he can't stop looking at my boobs! I know he's dying to get his hands on them...but it's kind of like when I was nursing my son - they LOOK good, but MAN are they sore!  Don't touch! lol
Proud Member of the Cambridge Crew!    
HW293/LW147/CW158   Height 5'9"  Working on Maintenance!
Fleur de lis TT and Brachioplasty - Oct. 19, 2010 Breast reduction and scar revision August 2, 2011
        
mkbeany
on 8/5/11 7:57 am



I'm embarrassed to say this had not even crossed my mind!!
"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. " -- Anais Nin

Revised from Band to Bypass 10/26/09
High Wt 355/ Surgery Wt 343 (BMI 61) / Current Wt 190 on 3/17/12

TT/Fleur De Lis 8/22/11
Mastopexy and Brachioplasty 12/14/11
Laura in Texas
on 8/5/11 10:07 pm
"I'm embarrassed to say this had not even crossed my mind!!"

You are so funny!! It was the first question my boyfriend asked me...lol. Men!! 

Laura

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Iam_with_the_Band
on 8/6/11 9:49 am
So funny!  My BF too, but then he kepts saying, "I don't want to hurt you!"  "I'm scared, I'll hurt you!"  Poor Guy!  Too cute!  I'm  10.5 weeks out and we're going to see each other next weekend.  Hopefully, he won't be still afraid.  He's more afraid then I am!  BTW, my bf lives out of town too!  It helps to not have them hanging out looking at us and drooling!

Laura, you're so hot!  I bet your BF just loves you to death!

12/09 and 6/11, 9 skin removal procedures with Dr. Sauceda in Monterrey Mexico
Revised to the Sleeve after losing 271 lbs with the LapBand. 

Laura in Texas
on 8/8/11 2:16 am
Dee, you are so sweet!! I've known my boyfriend for over 20 years. He met me when I was thin, he fell in love with me when I was fat, so he's loved me thin, fat, thin with floppy skin, now thin with scars. He's the best!! (we did have a 15 year span in there when he lost his mind and married someone else, but I had broken up with him, so I can't really be mad about that...lol)

You and I have a lot in common. I hope you and your boyfriend have a great visit!!

Laura

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

(deactivated member)
on 8/5/11 8:38 am - Yorktown, VA
The only position we've managed so far is with me on top and taking it kind of slow.......and him doing a lot of the "work." 
prek-3
on 8/5/11 8:50 am - Hollywood, FL
I so look forward to the top position. But hesitant with him doing the "work", he is so easily exciteable right now! Even when I had my drains!A ll I could say that time was "really"?

Nov 10,2009 I reached GOALL BYE  BYE  130 POUNDS! It wasn't about the FOOD, it was about what was eating at YOU!  Time for a Head adjustment!    **July 2011 Plastic Surgery Lower Body Lift

        Exercise    is not a LUXURY!

        Exercise  is a  NECESSITY
 

Laura in Texas
on 8/5/11 9:30 pm
Good to know, Tessy. Thanks!! 

Laura

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Melinda L.
on 8/5/11 9:09 am - San Antonio, TX
Since my husband has been taking showers with me almost daily since day four post-op.. the question has of course "come up" LOL

And I can't believe that I hadn't specifically asked my PS about it. I just figured that it wouldn't be until he said I could use my stomach muscles.. which isn't yet.

But I shot him off an email asking the question after I read this post earlier today. He's usually pretty good about getting back to me within a day.. So I'll have an answer this weekend

Hopefully it's soon!!!
RNY - 12/10/2008    Dr. Terive Duperier of BMI of Texas
Lower Body Lift / Breast Lift - 07/20/2011  
Dr Peter Fisher of San Antonio Plastic Surgery Center
  
  
prek-3
on 8/5/11 11:19 am - Hollywood, FL
Ahhh, so he's getting worked up no doubt. Drains, tubes don't seem to affect their labido much huh? LOL! Must be LOVE!

Post back as soon as dr. Responds back. My dr. Is on vacation! But ill feel it out. We are spending the weekend in a lil beach town. Not that ill be out sunning. There's always early morning walks, sunsets and SHOPPING!

Nov 10,2009 I reached GOALL BYE  BYE  130 POUNDS! It wasn't about the FOOD, it was about what was eating at YOU!  Time for a Head adjustment!    **July 2011 Plastic Surgery Lower Body Lift

        Exercise    is not a LUXURY!

        Exercise  is a  NECESSITY
 

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