sex???

prek-3
on 8/4/11 11:59 pm, edited 8/5/11 12:01 am - Hollywood, FL
Gotta ask!  When were you able to get back to normal ? I am almost 4 weeks post op from a LOWER BODY LIFT. And as much as I would LOVE to throw him some BONES, I can barely feel my own A$$! MEN!!!! LOL!!  I keep reminding my hubby that theres alot of ab work involved .

There will be no more kissing in this house, if its gonna ignite those feelings!!!

Anyway thanks in advance,
Prek3
Carmen 

Nov 10,2009 I reached GOALL BYE  BYE  130 POUNDS! It wasn't about the FOOD, it was about what was eating at YOU!  Time for a Head adjustment!    **July 2011 Plastic Surgery Lower Body Lift

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        Exercise  is a  NECESSITY
 

Still Fawn
on 8/5/11 12:05 am - SIERRA MADRE, CA
I was told 3 weeks, or as I feel comfortable, and be gentle (the side was suggested as a comfy position). I had a TT though, so not sure if the lbl adds time.

 I am still loving life with my sleeve! Been maintaining at or below goal for over 4 years!
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."   - Ramona L. Anderson

ericaFG
on 8/5/11 2:59 am - Cambridge, Canada
Oh man - my husband was ALL OVER me after my TT - as soon as the bloody bandages went away.  I think my new sexy body made him hot!  And it's only been 3 days since my BL and he's already hinting!! ;0)  I've told him no WAY he's touching these boobs for a few weeks!!  I think he wants to get at them before the swelling goes down! lol

I waiting a little less than 3 weeks after my extended TT.  But I was not the "energetic" one if you know what I mean...we took it slow. 
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prek-3
on 8/5/11 8:25 am - Hollywood, FL
They really are "DOGS"! LOL!!

Right now I am planning for a bl and arms to b done in dec. Of course he wants the enhancements! For 26 years I had the gurls robust. But now I think I don't want to go there. However if I am not happy with the result of the BL then I will consider getting it done next summer.

Nov 10,2009 I reached GOALL BYE  BYE  130 POUNDS! It wasn't about the FOOD, it was about what was eating at YOU!  Time for a Head adjustment!    **July 2011 Plastic Surgery Lower Body Lift

        Exercise    is not a LUXURY!

        Exercise  is a  NECESSITY
 

Bertrand765
on 8/5/11 3:55 am, edited 8/5/11 3:56 am
I was told when I felt comfortable and was ready we could resume. Took me to be two weeks post op when my husband and I decided to try. I know this is TMI...but just take it slow. It was fine during but the after was when I really felt all the stomach muscles I had used and was a bit sore after wards. Not much action going on over here either. I'll be four weeks out tomorrow. My poor husband keeps reminding me how unfair that is LOL But I'm still pretty tired and very swollen. Just make sure you careful and I say go for it.
Elle

          
prek-3
on 8/5/11 8:35 am - Hollywood, FL
Yes! I am so afraid of those abbs! Plus TMI, being on "top" will be a hoot! Before I felt like. The game "Tip It", with all that damn flesh trying not to lose my balance!

Nov 10,2009 I reached GOALL BYE  BYE  130 POUNDS! It wasn't about the FOOD, it was about what was eating at YOU!  Time for a Head adjustment!    **July 2011 Plastic Surgery Lower Body Lift

        Exercise    is not a LUXURY!

        Exercise  is a  NECESSITY
 

wings
on 8/5/11 3:59 am - Fort Myers Beach , FL
Wow Carmen
I am so glad you brought this up.  I have lost 170 and starting to loose some more.  I had a huge 14+ pannis removed and multiple hernias repaired with abd wall repair.  The PS and the general surgeon working together made sure all my organs were put back into place that have been leaning forward for 22 years and after repairing the mons hernia they gave me a normal looking hoote actually looks like I am a teenager again lol.  

My poor husband has endured several years of no sex because I had no want for it and embarassed of my pannis.  He now looks at me and I can see him giggle like a school boy.  He is itching to get ahold of me lol. 

I want the desire back.  I am fearfull of how it will or will not feel.  I see my PS again Monday and I am going to ask him about sex then.  I still have 2 drains that are starting to drive me crazy because I am moving around more. 

I am scared and excited at the same time.  Sex is almost exciting to me as getting to jean shop soon.  Wow I have really missed out on alot.

Carla
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Laura in Texas
on 8/5/11 6:29 am
Awwwwww.....hugs, Carla!! Take things slow, but you will get back into the hang of it. I enjoy sex so much better now in my 40's than I ever did in my younger days. 

I am 5.5 weeks out now. My boyfriend lives out of town but is dying to come visit me. I won't let him yet. Not quite ready. Since my wound opened up at the 4 week mark I am so frightened of busting it wide open again. I think he is planning on visiting me in 2 weeks no matter what!! I hope I'm ready!! 

Laura

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

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prek-3
on 8/5/11 8:44 am - Hollywood, FL
Carla, I can't wait! A little fearful, cause after losing all the weight I really enjoyed sex so much more. And now with an improved MONS, yeeeeee ha!

Nov 10,2009 I reached GOALL BYE  BYE  130 POUNDS! It wasn't about the FOOD, it was about what was eating at YOU!  Time for a Head adjustment!    **July 2011 Plastic Surgery Lower Body Lift

        Exercise    is not a LUXURY!

        Exercise  is a  NECESSITY
 

wings
on 8/5/11 10:02 pm - Fort Myers Beach , FL
You all have to be the best bunch of ppl I have ever chatted with cause your all so nonjudgemental and giving. 

Yep I am scared but willing to wait.  I love the look on my hubby's face when he looks at me now, not that he didn't look loving at me before but now something is renewed. 

Thank you all for contributing to this post, I can't  wait to see more answers. 

Carla
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