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I finally had my consultation last week and now I am waiting for the insurance company to see if they will cover it.  I told my PS that I wanted a LBL and implants with a lift.  He said he would do the LBL first and then come back in 3-4 months for the breast work.  I am so excited that it's finally going to happen....it's just driving me crazy waiting for the phone call, they said it usually takes 45 days.  I am scheduled to have surgery on the 14th of September. 

My hubby had me so upset last night, he was giving me a hug and he grabbed me by my hips and I have alot of fat there...I told him in a couple of months there wont be any fat there to grab anymore....he turned around and told me that I should have asked the doctor to take the fat off of my butt.  I was so hurt.  MEN!!!!  He knows how sensitive I am about my body image and I never expected him to say something like that to me.  Now he can't understand why I am mad....grr.

Your ticker says you weigh 130, so there must not be much fat, if any, on your body. I'm sorry your hubby upset you. 

I wish I still had a butt!! 

Laura
thankful for her very supportive boyfriend

I weigh 130 lbs but believe me I have alot of extra skin and I always had a HUGE butt.  I'm hoping it looks alot better once it is lifted lol....and I know I told you this before but you look amazinggg!

I finally got a new butt with my LBL.  Nice and perky I think...lol  Men suck...lol

Lori

Men suck!

My ex used to grab/play with my extra skin...but he actually liked it. He said he liked how soft it was.

I'm sure your dh did not mean it the way it came off...men have no filters at times!

We also take out the trash, kill bugs and open stuck jar lids!

Speaking as an XY, who on occasion been a "clod" himself, best payback would be after your LBL when your are all svelte and ready to resume "activities", put on a piece of form fitting lingerie and parade around him.  When he gets to thinking "Oh, Boy!  Oh, Boy!  Oh,boy!  Remind him of his transgression and tell him his is S.O.L! 

Hey Don I am loving this idea..thanks lol           

Hey Pam...

MEN...They can say the most hurtful things sometimes, thinking in all honesty, they did not mean it in the way it came out...YOU KNOW...THINKING OUT LOUD~WITHOUT THINKING..!! (LOL)

Thing is...your lower body lift is going to change that "BOOTY"...All that that he calls fat, is loose skin and BABY...when your surgeon pulls all that up and tightens it up...your hubby, when he sees and grabs it, is going to think a little bird overheard the two of you in conversation, and carried his THINKING OUT LOUD (INNOCENT) thoughts to that surgeons ears..so girlie, you have a surprise up your sleeve for DH..(NO, that's you have a sup rise up your BLOOMERS for DH..!!!)    (LOL)

I have never had much in the trunk..if I had, maybe then I would still have SOMETHING back there, but sssssssad to say, my B"OO"-TA has lost all it's "OO"....

Congratulations..I know you are looking so forward to the BIG DAY...!!

THE BEST TO YOU..MAY EACH DAY BE MORE EXCITING THAN THE DAY BEFORE...!!

cyndy