Liposuction sucked 4 me.

 "I could say that you people who need gastric bypasses probably should have limited your intake of food years before you gained all the weight but I won't."

Too late, you just did!  And you are way off base in saying that. There's obviously a lot about obesity that you don't understand . Very similar to not understanding the procedures you chose to have done.

That's my point. We have similiar issues that we didn't understand and then we got ourselves a certain way.  I shouldnt have cared about having to show my lumpy bumby thighs in a tucked in shirt and slacks at my job but I did at the time.  This was like a few months  before Jaylo and years before Kim Kardashian came on the scene. I wish I could get those thighs  back again. They were fun.  People who are anorexic probably eat too little and could have used therapy at some point.  So  here I am for anyone who isn't necessarily obese and thinks a little lipo could help a bump or two. (although Dr. Baccari had morbid obesity  listed as my condition on my post liposuction surgery report.) Now , today I have real problems.  I do this for myself too as an outlet/ diversion from pain when it spikes not just for other people. Another after thought adipose lost in liposuction won't be there as  cushioning to prevent ducubitus ulcers when people get older and the skin thins.

I am going to pray for you because you sound like you've let yourself become a miserable person.  I pray that you find peace. Maybe you're not really miserable "in real life" and it's just an online persona you've created (but I doubt that). After I pray for you I'm going to block you.

Laura

HELLO...
I viewed your pictures and I can understand your sorrow...YES, what THAT surgeon did to you was an act of nothing but show me the money and NO concern and copassion for HIS PATIENTS...He should have been a TRUE Surgeon that is there to help his patients, (NO MATTER WHAT THE PATIENT WANTS, IF THE PATIENT IS WANTING SOMETHING THAT IS APPARENT AND "DOES NOT NEED TO BE DONE..!!))...He should have told you "NO" that he would NOT do the LIPO foR, YOU DID NOT NEED IT..!!!! 
ALL that being said, WE all have to be held accountable for OUR OWN actions, as well...I say this because I wonder what YOU would have done IF HE HAD said NO...Would you have taken the NO advice, or would you have seeked out another surgeon, UNTIL... you found one that would have listened to your demands...THEY are out there in more numbers than we all realize.AND CARE TO ADMIT....I see story after story, of women and men just like you that CHOSE a surgeon that was willing to ROLL the dice with his patients and HOPE that "IT" works out "ONE MORE TIME..!!"
Have you sought help with dealing with all your emotions..?? If not, Maybe it would be a good idea to do so...I hope your post makes more and more realize they (including Me) have GOT TO research their surgeon and ask questions and demand to see before and after photos of his/her patients...and ask the Surgeon and people YOU TRUST, (FRIENDS/FAMILY) WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK BEFORE..DO YOU REALLY NEED THE SURGERY OR IS IT JUST A BODY IMAGE "YOU" THINK NEEDS TO BE CHANGED..??

THE BEST O YOU SWEETIE...I DO UNDERSTAND YOUR GRIEF OVER A BAD SURGEON AND A BAD CHOICE..!!

(HUGS)

cyndy
 

The surgeons who did my lift are supposedly excellent at doing this  They hold seminars with all the hot shot plastic surgeons. However they overlooked some of my snowflake aspects or had a bad day or there were just too many cooks in the operating room. Who knows ?  They probably learned or should have a lot about what not to overlook when body lifting from their experience with me.  We all learn from mistakes. I hope I get better I'm certainly trying to.  I'm not over yet, things keep changing as I stretch out the too little amount of skin left to serve as my pelvic slope and groin.  It's a real slow and painful process and hard to get help cuz other doctors don't get to deal with these new plastic surgery contrived abberations.  They are dealing with real people who didn't pay to have problems they are having. Sick children and the like.  It's a dead end street no respect of course. So embarrasing but still I have horrible nerve pain so I'm starting up again seeking help. I did have some luck lately with a chiropractor who sent me to a neurosurgeon and radiologist  who after several exrays and cat scan reviews  say my spine is the same as always.  Some other doctors said that the spinal fusion I had in 1984 came apart and I  need  to be refused but they were wrong as it turns out.  The new tests I had prove it.  Problem is not having enough connective tissue is forcing my femor and pelvic bones to go in the opposite direction than they should go.  The chiropractor thinks he can help me with therapies he has available that aid healing and sooth nerves. I'm all excited.

 

Sometimes when surgeons are too good they might just try out some wacky exoeriment thing  and because they have such a good reputation and high standing  your left in the dust if it's tried on you and it fails.  Only very rich people or people who have a strong medical support network should consider LBLS.

 

When I was at my PS's office for my 6 month follow up he did tell me about a woman who had  too much lipo done on her backside and she just sagged horribly.  They had taken out too much fat and sadly he told her that there was nothing he could do for her...not enough skin for a lift but was left disfigured by over liposuctioning.  He had to turn her away, but I'm sure she found someone to lift her and leave her like you are now.  Not all Doctors are ethical.

Laura

Fat should never be removed from the actual buttock and I never wanted this at all. 

Poor woman, it's so shocking to pay to be  ruined like that in an hour's time.  tell your PS to tell her to visit me on this site ie. if they still let me come here after all the hoopla from people who want me off of here after today. Maybe we can start a awful PS  anonymous group.  I'd be 4 that.

I have been reading this thread and I must say that you are a real *****! It is not our fault that you did not educate yourself and that you selected a sub standard plastic surgeon. I looked at your photos. It does not look as though you needed to have anything done to begin with. Yet another case of body dysmorphia. But as I read all of your snarky responses, I can't help but think maybe this is your karma for being such a miserable ***** in life...
FYI....you are NOT educating anyone. You are simply showing all of us how crazy you are. As far as your little comment about peole who had WLS....EFF you! I feel bad for your spouse who has to look at your ugly ass!!