TT - 6 days PO crease in belly
Ok so I know it is too early to worry but I cannot help it!! I will be a week out tomorrow. I have a crease in my stomach below my bb and slighlty above it. The skin below my BB, in the crease, is a dark line (similar to what happens to some pregnant women). It has been like this since I first snuck a peek in the hospital. He removed a lot of skin - 4" above my BB. Every pic I have seen on here with people out of surgery, their tummies are swollen, but smooth. I am still draining, 50 cc on one side and 60 cc on the other. They called this morning and said they will call again tomorrow for totals because the PS wants the number lower.
My bb is healing beautifully - no redness and one bruise the size of a dime. But I am so worried that I will not end up with a pretty smooth tummy like I have been seeing on here. When I saw my PS before I was discharged he told me that he was extremely pleased with the results and that I will be as well. I have not been to see him because I am still waiting for drainage to slow down. My husband keeps reassuring me that I am swollen and time will make it smooth out, but I am panicking because I have not seen any photos that look like my stomach.
I agree with your husband that it is very early days yet and you need to focus on recovery for now. Things will look so much different in a week, then two weeks later even better still and so on.
There is nothing that can be done at the moment anyway so you really should try to stop thinking about it as the stress is not doing you any good.
I may be on here in a month needing reassurance as well so please don't think I'm judging you!
Hugs,
Mickie
I need to be told those things! I am just so anxious! I guess in the end no matter what it looks like it will still be 100 times nicer than what I had. Thanks for the reality check - I needed it!! (But the crazy neurotic me would LOVED to see someone else with the same issue that has since been resolved LOL!!)
Laura
Laura
The top of my stomach (under the breasts) goes from soft to hard and flabby to tight. I tried on a pair of jeans that were big pre op and I could not even close the button past my hips!! I think I am more swollen than I realize!!!!
Maybe the PS was able to do it with just the horizontal incision and felt it was better for you. The vertical cut is more healing and painful (i have heard anyway) so maybe he was trying to avoid that. I really did not want a vertical cut but my PS never even suggested one.
I wanted him to cut all the way to the table (on my hips) and he wanted to stop at my hip bone (keep the line off my hips completely) when I woke up he told me he found that he had to cut into my hip a little to remove the hanging skin and he was upset about it!!! I was glad - it did not go all the way to the sides but a bit and I wanted that to be sure I did not have handles.. So I was like oh good -and he was all dissapointed and told me how he was hoping to not have to do that - I asked why and he said "I hate scars!' I laughed and said I hd so much extra hang I will take a scar over that any day!!
That situation should ease my mind too - at least I know he really does take pride in his work and was dissapointed that he had to extend my scar by 2 inches on each side - and that he even expressed his dissapointment to me!!!
Susan