Sex??? Um...**blush** When?

temporarynicole
on 3/25/10 11:53 am

So....Im kinda feeling a little ...erm....randy tonight and wondering since my hubby goes back to work on Thurs.....when is it okay to get busy after surgery? Assuming I lay there and don't do the work? (gawd - so embarassing). Should I be safe as long as there isn't pressure on my incisions???
Im 1.5wks out almost...but Ill be 2 on Tues.....

Surgery Date 1-29-09
Surgery Weight 317
Lowest Weight 175
Current Weight 195
Surgeon Goal 180
Personal Goal 165

Total lost since surgery 142 pounds!!

(deactivated member)
on 3/25/10 2:08 pm - Wiesbaden, Germany

DS on 10/08/13

NO! You need to heal six to eight weeks before engaging in sex.

Leah H.
on 3/25/10 2:50 pm - TX

VSG on 01/05/09

I was told 4-6 weeks. I think a 1.5 weeks is too soon. ACK! LOL I was told 6 weeks after my csections too. Only with laprascopic surgeries was I told in a week or two if I was feeling ok.

Extended Tummy Tuck & Breast Lift W/Dr. Sauceda 12/30/2009

Jody ***
on 3/25/10 7:37 pm - Brighton, MI

RNY on 10/21/08 with

I think it was 4 weeks for me. While doing the 'duty' didn't hurt, I found if the skin is pulled in anyway - that hurts a lot! So - be sure to wear a tshirt or have some kind of fabric between you - that way the skin won't stick together and pull.

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hazmat11
on 3/25/10 9:47 pm, edited 3/25/10 9:47 pm

RNY on 11/06/08

The right position will make a difference. You never know till you try. I waited about three weeks after having my thighs done with no problems. You can always stop if its uncomfortable. I only waited two days after hernia repair (lap) because the doctor said when you feel like it.

Susie

kidneedonor
on 3/25/10 10:24 pm

RNY on 09/09/08

Ask your surgeon. My doc said 6 weeks I definitely think 2 weeks is way too soon.. JMO..

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RNY 09/09/08 by Dr. Kruger
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Renee2007
on 3/25/10 11:38 pm - Central, FL

DS on 01/28/08

Did you have muscle tightening along with your tummy tuck? I can't even imagine having sex at 2 weeks out as tight as my stomach was.

Renee
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My DS
SW/263 CW/136 GW/150

temporarynicole
on 3/25/10 11:40 pm

Well surgeons rules are NOPE nada, nuh uh until at least 6wks. Apparently ****** can bust those stitches out :(
Bummer - but Im sure I will live.
I brought it up to hubby last night and even he looked at me like I was a bit on the psychotic side...LOL!

Surgery Date 1-29-09
Surgery Weight 317
Lowest Weight 175
Current Weight 195
Surgeon Goal 180
Personal Goal 165

Total lost since surgery 142 pounds!!

LisaS
on 3/26/10 10:16 am - Springfield, MO

RNY on 03/15/06

Although it is recommended differently by different Drs. the response is usually when you feel up to it (ranges from 2 to 6 weeks). You will definately want to make sure you are wearing a compression garment to ensure that everything stays where it needs to.

I can't imagine what kind of ****** would pop out stitches on a tummy tuck or MR, but I want one! LMBO!

I would agree with the hand job, but if you got a breast lift or aug that could be more painful than having the sex to begin with!

Lisa

laurak712
on 3/26/10 12:06 am - New Braunfels, TX

VSG on 01/12/09

OMG girl, you are crazy...LOL! I can't even imagine that you'd want to at this point. Um, maybe you can just "do" him...you didn't get an arm lift..haha!!

Laura

Height 5' 7

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