Maybe I don't look as good as I thought...

I'm with Moosie1234, sometimes men just get a little insecure when the wife starts not just looking sexy, but feeling it too! There's a difference.  My DH started the Insanity workout when he saw my results and he's eating more healthy...he said I'm not leaving him in the dust!

Luckily he has been the best caretaker. He had his own spreadsheet for my meds and drain totals. He made all my meals, helped me in and out of the recliner, tucked me in to bed, and drove me around for 3 weeks. It was great! He started getting "hungry" at the 2 week point, but  patiently waited until I was ready.

I would give him some time and not push the issue. Let him see you progress as you heal. Then if still nothing, try to clear the air. Good luck! Stay sexy!