I chickened out!

What a big chicken you are! Such shame you've brought to your house.



JK Fawn, as you know. You did the right thing if it didn't feel right for you. We all know how beautiful you are, just as you are right now, I hope you can see it too.

Take a deep breath and just enjoy the rest of the holidays!!!

That is about how I felt this morning, and I will be sooo embarrassed the first time I have to meet with my DR for anything....but...I had to do it this morning, I was too much of a mess.  I wanna learn to like what I got, yanno?  LOL

It's not for everybody. 

I hope you made the right decision for YOU and that it's not something you regret one day. 

Good luck!

Wen

That is what my hubby is most concerned with.  I hope it doesnt happen that way.  It all felt so rushed, you know?  It wasn't even my idea to start the process- it was my bariatric surgeons, and it all just took it's own life from there....If I ever reconsider, I will go through it at my own pace...

Fawn,

Better to NOT have the surgery if you were having a panic attack.

If you want to, you can always reschedule the surgery or not.

It's all about YOU.

Your DH will get over it.

They did offer to reschedule....so the door is open, but I need to take some time first before I even think about it.  Thanks for the support Lisa!

Fawn...Way to be strong in doing what you feel is best for you and your body.  No judgement here.  It's your body and YOUR decision.

Take Care.


DW

Thank you very much!

Dear Fawn,

Wow, what courage it must have taken for you to stop the process when so far along....good for you to recognize when something isn't right in that moment and being strong enough to act accordingly. As you said, I find that I am picking apart all the things about my body that are still "wrong", and it seems like if I don't get that in check, the list could go on and on. My husband encourages me to be okay with being 53, to "grow old gracefully" and I think that there is an inherent beauty in the ability to "grow old gracefully"  and with confidence....that is what I will aim for instead of trying to "fix" things with the knife. Don't get me wrong, the desire to take away years thru ps is strong and we all want to look our best....but the best thing of all is peace of mine, being alive to live and love those in our life , to smell the roses.......so I congratulate you on doing what you needed to do for now :))  Good luck on whatever path you take in the future...you are to be commended....BRAVO!!!! Lynette

 Aww Fawn -- no one HAS to have a TT!!!  And you were right to forgo a surgery that did not feel right for you.

If you want one later on, it will be there waiting for you!!!