Crazy ups and downs

This whole plastic surgery thing is so emotional! There is such an investment, financially and emotionally, in the process and outcome. A few days ago I was so sad and in tears for no apparent reason. Today I can't wipe the smile off my face.

I know that this is normal and at this time of year probably even more so.

THANK YOU, each and every one of you for your understanding and support. Going through this whole process of weight loss and 'body fix-up' is something that I don't think I would have been able to do as successfully as I have without the support that I feel here.

Thanks,
Martha

Hey Martha! I too, woke up so much better this morning. Yesterday morning was a mess! Good luck in your healing journey.

Tammy

Hey Tammy,

I'm glad you are having a better day too! Keep the updates coming!

Martha

The whole idea of surgery for weight loss and then plastic surgery is such a radical idea in my circle of family and friends  that I don't think I can share a lot with them.  My husband is very supportive, but I know he is going to be shocked with the mechanics of PS.

I't s great to have this board to come to for support from those that have been there and those anticipating their surgery.

Martha, you have been an inspiration to me and it has helped to follow your progress.
Thanks for sharing.

Lin

Thanks Lin,

I don't personally know anyone that has had plastic surgery either, and don't have a spouse for support. I would feel very alone had I not had others helping me along the way here. I am trying to "pay it forward" in what ever way I can.

Martha

Hey Martha! Enjoy the smilies!! I agree with Lin...you have been so helpful by your openness and honesty on here. It is truly helpful and provides a type of support I cannot explain.  I am off to the city to see my lovely PS...hopefully getting these drains out! Will post later. -Jen

Thanks Jen,

You have been there for me too!! Please keep us updated on your visit today!

Martha

Hi Martha,
Glad you are on the up swing.

This morning during my shower I cried....now I'm neither happy or sad.....just tired I think.

You are so right about the support we get here.  Nobody really understands what we are going through and what we are feeling UNLESS they have gone thru the same procedures..  

I'm so happy you are feeling better.  I hope after I see my surgeon tomorrow and get the clogged drains fixed and a smaller compression garment  that I will be riding high again.

Keep us posted on how you are progressing and feeling.
TTFN
Ruth

Hugs Ruth!!!

Being out today really helped too.... Let me know how it goes tomorrow!

Martha

Martha - I'm glad you're feeling better today.  I'm also VERY glad you're sharing your journey - and all aspects of it.  I think some kind of sugar coat what they're going through, so as not to scare the rest of us that haven't had it yet, or perhaps they're afraid someone will think they're a baby - if they're having a harder time than someone else did - but honestly?  I'd know up front what to expect and what I may be experiencing.  If its easier - great, if not - I was prepared for it.

I KNOW I'll be looking towards this board for support for mine.  My daughter (who I'll be staying with) has NO idea of what I'll be going through and thinks I'm just going to be living at her house for a few weeks recuperating.  I'd really like to be able to sit with her and say "ok - here's what I need you to do for me while in recuperation" - but I don't know what that is yet.  My son doesn't want "to hear about it" - and I know I won't be able to confide in anyone else.. so here it is!!