I just need to vent!

Jennifer Q.
on 12/6/09 10:55 pm - Newton, NJ
Grrr....I had TT with MR on Thursday. Still in quite a bit of pain. My mom and Dad flew out to help my husband with the kids and stuff, but this morning my husband just aggrivated the ((^#*&^$ OUT OF ME!  My parents were up at 5 with the baby then got the kids up, dressed and out to the bus by 7:30...all the while I am trying to help where I can. My husband is sound asleep!!! So he rolls out of bed at 8 knowing he has to be at the school by 9:15 to drive our kindergartener on a field trip that he OFFERED to go on.  Still has not taken out the garbage, so my dad is trying to take the garbage out to the road (nearly half a mile). While my hubby sips coffee and then takes a leisurly shower.  At 9:10 I am freaking out that he is still here and he gets mad at ME!! HELLOOOO!!??? Why offer to do something if you are not gonna be on time? Then he says " You told me last night I had to leave at 9:15" YEAH! FROM THE SCHOOL!! (which is 15 minutes from our house!  Seriously, my parents are doing everything and they are in their 60's!! What is his problem? When I am up to it I am gonna give him a swift kick in the ass!!  Ok thanks for letting me vent on here.  I am sitting here in tears  b/c I want to go on the field trip and my daughter is so looking forward to it.  I hope they still have fun.


SW 241.6/ CW 138.8/ GW 140
    At Goal 12/11/2009          
LinR
on 12/6/09 11:28 pm
Sounds way too familiar.  A man's brain is just not wired the same as ours.  Remember you are probably more emotional right now and give yourself some me time. 

Hope things get better.

Lin
      
dw45
on 12/6/09 11:51 pm - Hartford, AR
VSG on 03/23/09 with
Men!  ....Gotta love them!! LOL!


Anyway, try to relax and be thankful your parents are there to help with the slack!

Rest.

DW


                                                   10 lb lost pre-op       5'10
Plastic Surgery completed 12/17/09 with Dr. Sauceda (Anchor Cut Tummy Tuck, Medial Thigh Lift & Eyelid Surgery)


Jennifer Q.
on 12/7/09 12:24 am - Newton, NJ
Thanks Ladies!! I am an emotional basket case!! I now feel bad for yelling at him. ugh! Should I apologize or just act like nothing happened??? LOL I have all day to think about it!


SW 241.6/ CW 138.8/ GW 140
    At Goal 12/11/2009          
Iam_with_the_Band
on 12/7/09 12:28 am
OH BOY!
Your husband sounds like my exhusband.  He and I are still friends, btw.
But he used to do things like that all of the time.  Their minds aren't wired like ours are.
They don't do these things on purpose, they do them because they just don't think or consider the situation.  Seriously, that's what I believe.  I know that doesn't help anything.
I'm glad you have your parents there.  Bless them! 

Be careful with the kick in the ass, you might hurt your tummy!

Take a deep breath and rest. 
Sending you a big HUG!

12/09 and 6/11, 9 skin removal procedures with Dr. Sauceda in Monterrey Mexico
Revised to the Sleeve after losing 271 lbs with the LapBand. 

iammelissa
on 12/7/09 5:40 am - federal way, WA
Sounds like my husband too! 

 Melissa

 

sexyo7
on 12/7/09 6:09 am - Long Beach, CA
RNY on 11/28/07 with
 Hello, Boys never grow up they just want more expenses toys.  
Amy Farrah Fowler
on 12/7/09 6:36 am
oy - if they didn't have a penis, I'm not sure they'd be worth bothering with! 
Soaplady
on 12/7/09 7:05 am - Guilford, NY
boys stink!
Jennifer Q.
on 12/7/09 10:45 am - Newton, NJ
Thanks Ladies!! You all made me smile...and I needed to today!!


SW 241.6/ CW 138.8/ GW 140
    At Goal 12/11/2009          
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