Pubic hair woes

Ok, my pubs are growing back in and are *****ly!  They get snagged on my binder LOL...and it is looking not-so-pretty down there with it growing back all over.  My old bikini line has changed/moved and my incision line has some pubic hair growing near and around it.  Did you shave?  Can you use a dipilatory?  I always used Magic cream but am worried it is too harsh chemically for fresh incisions.  When do you think it might be safe to use?  I will ask my surgeon of course, but thought you guys might have some personal experience with this.

I dont remember it bugging my binder at all and my line moved up as well.  I shaved once there were no more scabs.  Very gently and I used shaving cream.  Then I found that that intuition blade rocks for bikini lines.  You might try that but I would leave it alone until all scabs are gone and its just a scar.

At three weeks out, my doc said it was okay to use Veet - I had tried to shave before that, but it hurt!  The nerves are still so sensitive - I still can't shave.  I also have hair growing at my incision line - but it's a small price to pay for no more yucky skin!!!