omg sex is .......

     maybe too graphic for some , ...... adult content!!!!!

      Wow what a night I well we had sex for the first time last night in a little over 4 weeks almost 5 weeks out from hernia repair and panni!
      We have been together 22 years and I have always had an apron over hang of skin! and just putting it out there that sex without that skin is...........GREAT!!!!!!!
      I know your all saying omg I can't believe she put this on here but we share our good and our bad so why not this right!?  
     Well I just had to say it does anyone have anything to add?
thanks guys... for all you listen to and coment too!
thanks Shirley

Really, Shirley, thanks for sharing.  I have lost down to a size 10, and my dh can't stop chasing me around, but I can't get over how I look nekkid!  I can't wait to be rid of this skin, for my mental well being, and well yeah, ok, the great sex!  Diane.

That is truly a WOW moment!!! Congrats on the good stuff!! Truly a benefit of plastic surgery....

Love that post!!  I go in for my lbl tomorrow & I'm very happy to hear of this newest benefit of the surgery!

Thanks for sharing Shirley..........something else to look forward to when I finally have my LBL.

I'm with you!  I thought plastics would do more for my mental well being.  I thought I'd feel prettier naked.  Although I've never had a panni, the wrinkly skin really bothered me.  But....the first time I had sex after TT, I really liked the physical effects from the TT.  The mons area was lifted up and that made my "happy place" a little more accessable.  We've always had great sex, even before WLS, but this was even better.

Cindy

Thanks for posting this!
DH and I have a great sexlife, but since surgery my body is so jiggley and droopy.  I feel much better than presurgery and I like the way I look but without clothes I seem to lose a bit of my confidence.  I can't wait for my tt so I can be on here shouting along with you.

Curious, is the mons lift a part of the TT or was that extra? 

You go girl!!! 

I am so happy for you.  I am scheduled to have a tt and breast lift on August 25th and one of my main question was:  When could I have sex after the surgery?  You answered that question along with extra information.  Thanks for the post and enjoy your new body anyway you can.
Sherline

*sigh*  That's one thing I was really looking forward to after the TT.  My husband and I always had good sex - so long as I was never in a position that caused my belly skin to jiggle and bounce and flap....and, well, you get the point.  I knew that having this done would do wonders for my self-esteem - and it has!  Only too bad I'll probably never have sex again because I was stupid enough to marry a narcissistic a**hole!  Sorry.....I just needed to vent...