your opinions.. am I selfish?
I hear and understand your frustration on this matter. Lets play the what if game. What if U did not have the money saved but were still working the part time job? Perhaps the answer is a compromise of both....keep working, TEMPORARY stop saving for the Plastics. Can the daughter get a part time job? How about anyone else in the family??? Yes U deserve the surgery, just postpone it for a year (lets say) and see where things are then. Keep working, but stop saving for now, use the extra pay check to help out. Good luck