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On how to deal with a man who is becoming a big crybaby? Every time that BM contacts him since telling him that about needed a DNA test.....he gets really testy. Last night he was slamming doors and just going off on me. I listened and didn't say anything but after about 45 minutes......I just calmly said...If I make you that unhappy...maybe you should go. I said...I love you. But I love you enough to let you go if I don't make you happy. He said.........yeah, right....you'll just cause Drama if I try to leave. I said..I'll leave and give you time to pack your stuff and go....I picked Gracie up and told her to kiss her Daddy and say GoodBye and she said Bye, Bye and kissed him and I got two steps from him and he said...GO GET ME ICE CREAM!!!! I said....do you want to leave, Chuy? He said...go get me ice cream. I wanted to kick him!!!! I was calm and did not yell back at him at all. Normally...I would have said something. But I have no more fight left in me. Between work (which I almost walked out on yesterday), school (which I am PRAYING I make it through without failing since I can't concentrate on studying), my kids missing me and Baby Levi...I have NO TIME for him acting like a two year old. I know maybe I should be more understanding because that was a huge blow to him...and I tried..but he is STUCK right now. Until October...he is STUCK. He has to wait it out. I tried to tell him to respond and tell her that he only wants to talk to Graciela but will not respond to her...he won't do it. I asked him if he was going to respond to her last night and he says.."What for?" OR>>He'll say..."I have nothing to say to her." WELL>>>then get off your pitty potty and STOP!!! WOW>>guess that was a vent. I am sure he's just upset and I have so much going on that it doesn't help and I can't help him because I have too much other crap going on. Guess I needed to vent. Sorry, girls!
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