Repost birth control question

Ok ladies 3 weeks after having nate i went on the depo shot and in 3 months i gained 30 pounds well pack on sept 7th i got mirena iud and since then i have had bad hair lose, oiley hair as well as i have had to start taking 3 blood pressure pills a day to which i had been taking none. I also have severe severe cramps and no period with them. So my question is. Do any of you know any thing else other then depo, nuva or iud that might work and do any of you know if there is a non hormonial bith control Bye the way I am having the iud removed tomorrow i cant deal with having high blood pressure and dealing with having to take 3 pills a day Thanks Marsha