Hi Laura;

congrats on your continued success.  I've been around since 2006, although not as often as I had been.  Life/work etc....keep me busy these days..

There used to be some folks on here from the Pittsburgh area.  I am from Philly the other side of the state...Welcome!

Wow! It's been years since I have been around these parts! Not even sure if anyone is still around from back when! Anyway... brief description. Bypass on 7/10/07... hit my goal weight 6 months later. 6 years later I am still at the same weight.

I am now examining my options for a panni. From what I am reading I should have no problems having the VA take care of it for me. I am a 12 year military veteran with service connected disabilities. Going to talk to my PCP about it tomorrow.

Anyway just wanted to stop in, say hi, and see if anyone is still around?!

Congratulations on three years.  That is awesome.  I know how hard it is in the beginning. 

Hugs,

Trish

 I wanted to come here and share and hopefully encourage others who may be struggling with a transfer/cross addiction to alcohol.  Many people continue to join the OH Crossing to Transfer Addictions forum, although few post.  http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/crossingtotransferaddiction s/discussion/ Everyone's journey is different.  Here is some of mine.

I had RNY surgery on May 31, 2007.  Prior to surgery, I drank alcohol rarely and in moderate amounts -- like a glass or two of wine with a holiday dinner.  I did not drink at all for the first 6 months after surgery.  At about 6 months out, I drank alcohol again rarely.  But at about 16 months out, noticed a regular routine of drinking once a week, a couple of drinks.  Over a very short period of time, those drinks got stronger -- more rum; then more quantity was consumed - 1 drink became 2, then 3; and more frequent -- once a week became twice or three times.  Within a few months after that, I knew something was wrong, and I was not consuming alcohol like "normal" people.  I was hiding liquor, drinking alone, sneaking drinks when I was with others -- all behaviors that tipped me off to having a "problem" with alcohol.  So I decided I needed to stop drinking altogether.  And I found that I could not stop.

My "problem drinking" progressed into full-blown alcoholism, and I believe that due to my RNY, it developed much more quickly than in someone without their intestines having been re-wired.  In that next year, as I tried to stop drinking, I actually got worse.  My quantity increased.  I could drink a bottle of wine, or vodka or rum in an evening, and I would do it most evenings.  More progression had me drinking on my lunch hour, then during work time.  At the end of my drinking, I was drinking morning, noon and night, just to maintain a sense of normalcy... I found I could not function without the alcohol.

In trying to get sober, I tried rehab, outpatient intensive therapy, outpatient general group therapy, private counseling, AA, SMART Recovery, Women for Sobriety, Sober24.com, self-help books --- you name it, I was trying it!!!  I did not get sober right away.  It took me two years to get 90 days.  I finally got that 90 days when I surrendered and told my God that I would do WHATEVER he said in order for me to get and stay sober.  I was led back to church and back to AA where I finally agreed to put myself in the hands of others who had gone before me.  I was willing to take suggestions.  I was willing to work the 12 Steps of recovery.  And God gifted me with sobriety from the moment I prayed with someone in an AA clubhouse parking lot on June 3, 2010.

I am not perfect.  I do not get everything all right.  I still struggle with food issues.  I am grateful that one day at a time I no longer have any desire to drink alcohol and have not had any in three years now.  I try to work the 12 step program of recovery to the best of my ability one day at a time, and that includes the 12th step -- having had a spiritual awakening, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

Thanks for letting me share.  If you need someone to hear you, please feel free to PM me.