Working to Failure

kgoeller
on 9/22/10 11:58 am, edited 9/22/10 11:59 am - Doylestown, PA
Some thoughts to share... feeling particularly introspective tonight for some reason.

When working out tonight, the trainer was pushing us to repeatedly do sets "working to failure" instead of either seeing how many you could do in a specific time, or giving us a specific numeric target to work toward.  In training, the definition of "working to failure" can be either of two things... working until the muscle has "exhausted its potential for change" and needs to recharge or (subtle difference here) working until the muscle is exhausted enough that you cannot maintain the proper form when completing the exercise.

Working to failure is, therefore, analogous to 'working completely.' 

In our weight loss journey, many of us see failure as a bad thing.  If you told me that "working to failure" was a positive thing, I would laugh at you.  BUT... in our WLS journey as in training, our goal needs to be to work to failure. 

Failure in this sense is:
- making sure that we have expended our complete effort to achieve our goal. 
- realizing that there will be times (many, for most of us) when we've expended our complete effort and now need time for our WLS muscle (metabolism, body, etc.) to recharge for the next stage of the effort
- working diligently and pushing ourselves to the fullest extent of our capability, without holding things back or in reserve, to achieve our goals
- not allowing ourselves to give up or give in when it gets hard, but to push past that point to find our REAL limits

There's an inherent trust in this...trusting that our muscles WILL recharge, that our bodies WILL respond, and that we WILL be able to get out of bed the next morning :-).  But that's the essence of success in this - learning to trust our selves and love ourselves and embrace the journey.

As with working out, there is no "done" to it... WLS, working out, life... it's all a journey, not a destination. 

My goal in my continued WLS journey will be to "work to failure" at it every day, putting in my best efforts to maintain my weight loss (and get this last 10 or so pounds OFF!) and keep my body in the best possible shape. 

So now, failure is my goal.  What an interesting rethinking!

Karen
Holly317
on 9/22/10 4:06 pm
 What a crazy way to think about it but it's so true. I love how you related this to the WLS journey. I have to say it couldn't have been at a better time for me to hear this too =) Thanks Kar!!! 
R K.
on 9/22/10 7:44 pm
That's been around since the 70s. It's usually part of HIT. Muscle only grows when it is broken down. Sort of like life. If you never get pushed beyond the limit or what you "think" is the breaking point you never truly grow.
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Maura M.
on 9/23/10 1:11 am - Yardley, PA
I need to catch that same bug - I tend to work to wimpiness - meaning that I wor****il I am too wimpy to continue, which I think I would say is way before hitting failure

I like the thinking andthink that it is awesome that you are calibrating your mind in this way.

Awesome Karen!
Maura

        

(deactivated member)
on 9/23/10 2:15 am
Karen,

    I re-read this just now after reading it last night and THANK YOU for sharing it. I have been struggling on many levels the last few months. Emotionally and physically so to read this after a long discussion about goals sunk into my soul today.
eagleed
on 9/23/10 3:24 am
thank u just what i needed today.this has been an intersting journey one that  i would never trade
but how do u keep from being obsessed with it.Sometimes it's all i think about,i to am having a heck of a time with the last 15 lbs.I feel great but it is the fact that i want to see that number on the scale.


ladychief231
on 9/24/10 9:15 pm - Douglassville, PA
Excellent. Thanks for sharing.



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GD_007
on 9/25/10 9:46 am - Drexel Hill, PA
vg, K !
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