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Hey girlies..and guys,

I am wondering if anyone has gone through any jealousy issues with there spouses?  My husband is so jealous of my WL.  All I have to do is talk to people and he thinks I am flirting.  We were away for the weekend and went out with friends things were good and then all of a sudden he went into Jealous mode and left sent me a text and we got into a huge fight outside the bar.  This has been going on for a while now.  

I just was talking to Tanya about things.  We have 3 kids together and I don't want to ruin a family, but I can't breath.  I feel like everything I do he is watching me.  I have been there I know how he feels in past relationships, but this is crazy...I know I am not writting about everything there is not enough space for it, but I am at the point I don't know what to do...

Have you talked to him about this?  He might see something you don't see because he is on the outside watching... You might not think you are flirting but maybe you are doing a certain body movement that might make him think that you are flirting...

Also you said he is jealous of your weight loss... is he a heavy guy?

Hey Cortney, have you looked in the mirror lately?  you are hot....and your husband is feeling insecure....and it is normal..........try your best to let him know he is still your number one love, if he is?     he was there before and let him know he is there now....????? it is your choice.......love you and only wish happiness for you...whatever that is....but remember       he was there then, and this is now.....................love him and remember he is only human and is reacting to  the situation..............................................................lois...

Hey there,

When I signed up for surgery the therapist told me that 50% of marriages of people who have GB end up separating or divorcing (that number is unbelievable) however, think about a person who never worried about their spouse before and then all of sudden he sees her through the eyes of onlooking men differently? He is seeing what others see when they look at you and it is making him insecure like the pp said, you have to reassure him that he is still the only one for you. I had to tell my DH about a man who worked with me for years and after surgery wanted to take me out. I said no person who couldn't spare a word for me 4 years ago can hold my attention today. If I wasn't good enough for you before, you're not good enough for me now...end of discussion. My DH is more jealous of our 4 mo. old than any man. Its kind of funny though...Hope this helps some.