Howdy Monday
Mary, My heart goes out to you at this time! Dealing with this is not going to be any fun at all for you. I am with you on the quality of life though. If he becomes a vegetable...well I would pull the life support. I wouldn't call that living at all. Being kept alive by machines is NOT living. But that is your move not mine.
Praying for you to do what is right. Praying for the doctors to make Jim better if at all possible.
HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS