IT'S SATURDAY!!!!!!!! WHATS UP???????

Coffee is cold be right back...

  Much better!! HOT Coffee!!! LOL

Well I am going to TRY to be nice here...things have been a pain around here lets say...dealing with enough STRESS and I have had enough!!!!!!!!  I NEED A VACATION AND ITS NOT GETTING HERE FAST ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!!!! Besides Tenants getting on my nerves I find out my youngest son and his wife will be at the wedding which means I will now have to watch my back as they made threats to "beat my big fat ass" if they ever see me again. (last time younger son saw me I weighed 334 pounds) Renee (future DIL) calls and asks if I heard from any of my family on if they are coming to wedding. No. Well none of them replied. Only two days til she has to know yes or no. I get going on asking if they are coming or not...Oh this one is going camping, this one is doing something with friends...blah blah blah...ummm HELLO!!!!!!!! Can't you send back the self addressed stamped envelope to let them KNOW????????? DUMB ASS??!! Is it THAT HARD TO DO?????????????? For crying out loud you ARE AN ADULT NOW!!!!!!! So I actually have 5 yes FIVE family members coming to my son's wedding. My cousin I am not sure of now because he was on the roof and when he tried to come down he fell off the ladder and is in the hospital with a broken wrist and severe bruises all over his body!!!!!!!!! Then My son posts on FB Renee's old dog Champ passed away. My sister is STILL in the hospital. Had more surgeries. Last surgery she had the priest gave her the last rites.  STILL has this dam infection they can't get rid of!!!!!! She said the dr is not telling her YET but she said she is going to lose her leg. I am going NUTS HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Had Bingo yesterday. Turned it into a BBQ Potluck. Had 10 people show up.  I am sure the ONE woman that hardly ever comes (trouble maker) couldn't wait to get out of there and start letting everyone KNOW we had a BBQ!!!!!!!!!!    The look on her face when she came in and saw all the food out OMG!!!!!!  But ask me if I care???? She had called me earlier and asked me to set up cards for her. I asked her if she wanted me to play them for her also. I told her I was busy setting up for the bingo and had just walked in the door from getting a ho****er tank that blew up!!! Oh she said she didn't know...I told her no she didn't because everyone thinks all I do is sit on my ass!!!!!!! I hung up on her. I looked at phone messages and she had called 4 TIMES!!!!!!!!! This woman is a PAIN IN MY BEHIND!!!!!!!!  She also wants her shrub dug out because it has bugs in it and they bother her when she sits outside. HELLO!!!!! Its that time of year!!!!!!!!  

Weather is nice TODAY.  Tomorrow and the next couple of days...OMG more storms again and they could be bad. So sick of this weather!!!!!!!  One good thing though it has gone all around us this time!!!!!!! THANK GOD!!!!!!!

Need to get dressed. Rick will be back from the recycle and I won't be ready to go...LOL

Been reading posts everyday just not in mood to talk.

Thoughts and Prayers for ALL that need them!!!!

HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

PS Forgot to mention I picked out the Mother Son dance song... MY WISH By Rascall Flatts

Judy,

I don't see how you put up with all the crap you put up with.  I have a couple of acquaintances of whom I have never allowed to be more than acquaintances because they are so petty and negative, and as a result, they often try to belittle me behind my back and I could care less.  One even said to me, you think you are so much better than me to which I said, no, not at all.  I don't think I am better than you, but I really don't have the time to put into developing a friendship with you...what I wanted to say was, no, I don't think, I know...and I wanted to add that developing a friendship with her would be too taxing with to high a cost and to high a liability....so, I see your tenants as similar to these few folks who I keep at arms' length.  

I hope the doctors are able to save your sister's leg and her life.  I cannot imagine how stressed she is right now.

Sadly, my son is somewhat like your youngest son...or his wife is like your youngest son's wife.  She is constantly being disruptive in her family and in our family and I finally had so tell my son that I cannot be a part of his life while he is married to that crazy assed *****and I added that I loved him and my grandsons but I cannot let her constantly keep me upset.  I hope that if he comes to your son's wedding, he acts right and doesn't cause you harm...

Well, today, I am marathon cooking for the husband so he will have food next week while I am traipse to Boise.  I am cooking meatloaf, baked chicken, beans, chili, pork chops, and steaks...each meal will be put in one portion containers and labeled so he will have food for his lunches and his dinners.  

So, beside cooking and a little cleaning and packing, my day is not going to be too spectacular. 

Ladies, hope your day rocks. 

Hello Jeannie...WOW...you do take care of your hubby!!! That is a lot of cooking to prepare that many meals. I know...I used to do the same thing. Your hubby is spoiled!

Have fun on your little adventure!!! I am sure you will come back with all kinds of funny stories! You always do! I will be looking forward to hearing all about it!!! Keep safe!!

Me getting rid of Pam is the best thing I could have ever done for myself. I am relieved!!! The same for Tony. He had to go...he was making me so crazy!! Good riddance!! My stress level has dropped for sure!

You have a fun day, cooking, cleaning and packing!!! 

Much love to you...Hugs....connie d 

Jeannie...when we first started out here as managers I made "friends" with some tenants. Well I made a mistake being "friends" with some. Lesson learned!! I am no longer "friends" with ANY of them!! I am a MANAGER ONLY here!!! Sure I am friendly to them all...some not so much. I treat them like they treat me!!! 

I also failed to mention...my younger sons wife is a THIEF and DRUG Addict. Yet he still wants her. WHY???? Because she is the only THING he can get!!!!!!!! She is not welcome at ANY relatives home because of her taking their money, drugs anything of value. She has been in and out of jail, rehab and had even lost her daughter because of it. Sad huh?

As for my sister...most of her veins are shot due to the chemo, radiation and her dialysis. She will be 73 next month if she makes it that far.

Have fun cooking...I don't mind cooking it is the CLEANING UP afterwards...YUCK!!!

HUGSSSSSS

Good morning Judy and everyone....

Judy...that is my favorite song for a mother and son. Brings me to tears every time. A friend of mine was dying of brain cancer. She had them play that song at her son's High School Grad party. She danced with both her son's and then her daughter. There wasn't a dry eye in the place. They however found another treatment and surgery for her and she is still with us. That was four years ago. Now she isn't doing so good again. Every day is a gift to her and her family. Great song!!!!

Honey...I know we chatted about this before, but it still makes me angry at the inconsideration your family has for your families happy occasion. Maybe it is best that they just stay away if they don't know how to act. I know it hurts you and that hurts me. We have to remember that unfortunately it seems like our generation is about the last one to know how important these events are to family. The younger generation(not all) is so flighty and they seem to put their needs first...more so all the time. Family isn't what it once was. No one keeps in touch much. No one gets together for picnics or just visiting anymore. It really is sad. There so much they are missing. 

As for Bonnie...I am constantly sending prayers for her. I am more then a little disappointed in her kids for not ever letting you know about all the surgeries and such. We find it cruel and disheartening that it doesn't seem important enough for them to communicate with you. They just plain don't care. How sad is that?? You have to just let it go. There isn't anything that will change their minds! I am so sorry!

I am glad you had your BINGO and a little picnic too. You needed something to do and keep your mind off all the tenant and family issues!! I wish that crabby old woman would move away. She causes so much of the trouble around there in one way or the other. Telling you to dig out a bush because it has bugs...she is nuts!! Tell her maybe she just needs to take a long hot bath a little more often and to keep her legs crossed...sorry...I had to say it!! I know you were thinking it..LOL! 

I hope the storms keep missing you!! We have temps in the 80s today with the humidity in the 90s.  I don't dare even step out the door no matter what!

You try to have a good day...I am still in this damn rut!! I am posting on this board as my therapist requests. Don't get me wrong...I love every one of you. I am just feel like crawling back in bed and staying there. I get it ...I really do!! Onward I go!!!

As for me... I am so hoping Vickie got some good rest last night. I am so worried about her as she was so exhausted. She is always in my thoughts and prayers. It just doesn't feel like enough. I love that lady...we all do!!

I am trying my best to figure out my new phone and computer. It is a lot of information for this slow old mind!! I will keep at it!! I am just so thankful for the wonderful gift!!

Well...I need to get out for my walk. It will be warmer in here as the A/C in the building is really struggling to keep up. I think they need to invest in a couple more A/C units!!

Prayers for all our sweet OFF Family and their families. Special prayers for Bonnie and Judy, Eileen, and of course our Vickie. At this point I feel like we all need prayers!! 

Wishing you all a beautiful day!!

So much love and many more hugs to all....connie d

Hi Connie...well talked to my son...not sure now if that will be the song or not. He doesn't care for Rascall Flatts...LOL Told HIM to find the song then!!! OMG!!! I give up. I have enough **** going on here to worry about a dam song to dance to! He laughed. NOT FUNNY!!!! He said he would listen to it and let me know. KIDS!!!!!

Like I told you the other night when we talked...my family can KMA!!!! End of talk.

Same with some of the tenants around here...GRRRRRRR  can hardly wait to hear the gossip...LMAOOOOOOOO

As for the storms...not looking good at all for us...YUCK!!!!!!!! Just pray they miss us again!!!

We got free tickets to the Rockin Ribs for tonight...not sure if we will go or not yet. Went to Mansfield bought a truck bed cover for the truck so we can take propane grill with us on vacation so we can cook at motel. Can eat cheaper this way. Also Son called said fishing trip a little more than thought...GRRRRRRRR leaving earlier than planned so guys are getting a room for the night instead of leaving early in morning. GREAT!!!! Rick almost backed out. I told him we got our room early because of this fishing trip so it cost a little more...truck cover was cheaper than I thought it would be...so go ahead and go. He didn't want to...but I told him go!!!!! So he is going now. Told David if anything else comes up its on him!!! LOL

So HAPPY for you that you got new TOYS!!!!   Hope you get them figured out soon!!!! If you need my number again let me know.

Love you girlfriend!!!

HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Hi Judy...I can't believe your son doesn't want that song. It is so perfect. I hope he doesn't pick hard rock...LOL...just kidding!! I agree from now on he can do himself. YOU have more then enough headaches!!

Those tenants there sure do love their gossip. We have a little click here that does that. They are the three that go to church ever day, not that there is anything wrong with that. They are hypocrites. I told them going to church and thinking you are going to Heaven is the same as me standing in my garage is going to make me a car.They sit at that puzzle table and talk about everyone!! I told them I want no part of it! That is another reason I now do my own puzzles in my own apartment. I always hung out with them and did puzzles. I couldn't tolerate that kind of crap anymore. They are very hurtful to others...especially the ring leader!! When I pass them I say hi and keep on walking!!!!!! I am good friends with many others here I don't need that!!

I am sorry the storms are going to make it your way. Keep safe sweetie...I NEED YOU!!!!

Why would you turn down ribs??? I couldn't...they are like my favorite thing especially in the summer...Mmmmmm!!!

Great idea taking a little grill on your vacation..that will help a lot!!

I hope to get these "toys" all figured out soon. I still get confused sometimes because they are so different. Apples and Oranges aren't the same thing...LOL!! Most all my family has Apple iPhones and computers. They can help me if I get stuck. We can visually see each other and they can show me exactly what I need to do. That is great!!

TRY to have a good rest of the day!!! 

I love you girlfriend...more hugs...connie d

Connie...Me thinks the son is TEASING me...hard to tell with him.

As for the ribs...can't get in til 5pm...by then Rick has had a few beers which means I have to drive...not knowing where to go...I HATE driving places not knowing where to go!!! Plus it is hot and muggy. I do not like walking around when it is muggy out. The rains are getting closer for tomorrow also making it even more muggy out there. YUCK!!!!!!!! Anyhow we bought steaks for the grill today...turned out good except Rick once again cooked mine too long!!! GRRRR Guess he will never learn I like mine really pink inside!!! He loves his WELL DONE!!! YUCK!!!!!

Went and bought the bed cover for the truck today. Get that installed Tuesday afternoon. Dealer we bought truck called and he said the key man will be there Thursday afternoon and FINALLY we will get our extra key and FOB made!!! About time!!!!!

David just texted me a photo of a fish one of his friends just caught where they will be fishing...OMG it is a HUGE Brown trout. Hope they are a mild tasting fish...LOL I do not like fishy tasting fish at all.

OK Back to FB and my games....need to relax again...LOL

HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Good Morning Judy and OFF,

Judy, you definitely need a vacation.  I'm continuing to pray for your sister.  I hope you get to have a break soon.

I am finally up in the morning, and not having to run out the door.  I'll be going over to Eileen's in a little while to check on Mom.  I didn't go yesterday, and boy did I need that break.  Great day yesterday. 

Today, Kathy and I are hoping to go see her daughter, Erin, and her baby, and hubby.  I haven't seen them since February.  Jackson has grown so big.  He's 8 months old now.  

Continuing to pray for Vickie, the girls, our Eileen, and Judy's sister.

Love and Hugs,

Trish