Friday morning
Dearest Vicki, it's OK to cry if you need to. That's what funerals are for. You just have today to be strong, then you can decompress. You must be so exhausted with being with Butch most of the time in hospice and now saying goodbye. Please, please take time for yourself after all this is over. Go somewhere and get some 'you' time. Thinking of you always, sending love. arlene
Vickie, all of us are there with you in spirit, wrapping up you in a giant cyber hug. Cry if you want, let it out ... no one will think less of you. You have been through a giant ordeal and now it's time to let it go. One more day and then you can get some rest ... I know it's hard. Don't try to be strong. Take the condolences as they are meant to ease your pain, tell you how special Butch was to them.
Vickie....I keep watching the clock and thinking about where you are and what is going on. I am sure there were many people that attended the funeral. You will be so exhausted by the time you get home. So many people loved Butch. That really says a lot about who he was. We already know how amazing you are!!
My heart is still so heavy....I just keep sending positive thoughts and tons of love to you and the girls. I know you will all be okay after awhile. For now... just do what you think is right for you. Cry, laugh, throw things...whatever it takes.I am always here if you want to talk. HUGS!!!!!!!
More LOVE and More HUGS....connie d
Dear Vickie,
I'm always coming on here late, but I was thinking and praying for your and you family this morning and this afternoon. I was mowing the lawn which is when I do my best thinking. Yes, Butch is at peace now and he will keep on looking after you and your family, he is now your Guardian Angel.
Many hugs,
Monique