Anxiety problems

Hi Eileen -- I'm sorry you're going through this stress.  I, too, think it may be best to cut ties with HWNSNBS's mother - it causes you to think of him again.  She has family to look after her.  You tries to be ITS caretaker and look what happened.  I have made the mistake in the past of trying to help others and it ended up costing me - emotionally, physically, and financially....and in the end, I got hurt and my "ITS" were back in contact their their families.  Eileen has to take care of Eileen.  ITS mother as to take care of herelf, and IT if she wants too - her choice.  She has family to turn to -- let the family play the role they are supposed to.

Priority Number ONE -- Take care of EILEEN.

You know I say that to help you and support you - I want to see you on the road to recovery!

Mary

I am so glad you are working with the therapist.  I think you would be wise to disentangle your self from his mom. I guess my question is, how is your continuing in a relationship with his mom goibg to pprotect her from him? You can't. The best thing you can do is help her develop an escape plan should he attack. Then estracate yourself from the relationship.  

I hope you are able to sleep tonight. 

Eileen, can't post much today but I love you dearly and I hate that you are suffering thru this. Keep your chin up, honey! That ******* will not win your well being!