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problems on the home front. I'm having a hard time staying on track. No gain, but not losing. My SO is having serious health issues that he won't face, causing a lot of tension between us. His health is deteriorating - probably needs a liver transplant, but won't follow doctors' advice. Supposed to see liver specialist March 4th -- we'll see if he goes. But, I should be taking care of myself!! We all have problems to deal with. I'll try to get to posting regularly - I was kind of embarrassed to post because I fell off the wagon. Thanks for calling the lurkers out Light switch. ............ P.S. Sorry I can't break my post into paragraphs.......this pad won't let me! Mary

Mary,

I know what you mean about our SOs.  My husband is a diabetic and has had a cornea transplant...he needs his second one but he won't stay on his diet so his blood sugar is too high for the surgery.  I am tired of saying over and over for him to not eat this or that so this year, my promise to myself is that he is responsible for himself and I will provide him with healthy alternatives but I am not going to get myself tore up trying to make him stay on his diet.   Instead, my focus is me.   I know that sounds selfish but he has to take some responsibility...if he won't, then he will face the consequences.  Yesterday he said, I feel horrible and my feet are swollen and my sugar is 280, I said, how many chips have you eaten? he said, it's not the chips; I said, okay then.   He has berries but buys chips and keeps them in his office as if I won't hear him crunching away and smell them on his breath...men....what can I say?