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Connie D.
on 10/19/12 7:11 am

Judy....Tony and I have thought about living together. I just don't feel it will work. We love each other and it is hard to see each other with other people. I can't imagine either of us bringing dates home and feeling comfortable.
Our families pulled us apart because of our age difference. I am 17 years older then he is. There was always too much conflict.
We have a good relationship now and am always there for each other when we meed to be. Sometimes you just have to let it go.

Love you friend...hugs....connie d

Judy G.
on 10/19/12 8:46 am - Galion, OH

RNY on 10/17/06

Connie if that is the ONLY reason that your family is upset over you and Tony being together OMG girl!!!!!!! There is 19 years difference for me and Rick!!!!!!!!! Age is JUST a NUMBER!!!! If you both love each other that is ALL that matters!!!! YOU deserve to be HAPPY don't you??? YES!!!!!!!!!!!!! Think about it....does your family pay your bills? No? Do you need help with your living happy?? YES!!!!!!! Tony fits the bill!!!!!!!!! You get back with him and be HAPPY!!!!!!

HUGS

Connie D.
on 10/19/12 12:40 pm

RNY on 08/29/07

Judy....I wi**** were that easy. We just had to let it go. Now my family and his can't understand why we are both so unhappy in the relationships we try to have now. Oh well!!! He has a harder time standing up to his family. His friends and coworkers were on his a$$ all the time. They made it pretty hard on him. No going back....that is my rule!! I can never go through that kind of pain again. Losing him was the hardest thing I ever went through. It has taken me years to just not breakdown when I am around him. Glad our FAMILIES are happy!!!

When he found out I nearly died Tuesday he was in tears he just kept holding me and holding me and crying. He has a very kind heart and is a good man.

Love you for caring....HUGS....connie d

Judy G.
on 10/20/12 12:05 am - Galion, OH

RNY on 10/17/06

Connie then move away from them so you do not have to hear them all the time!! Be HAPPY with each other!!! They don't have to be the ones happy!!! They will get used to it once they see how happy you both are together!!! And if they don't...well it is THEIR LOSS!!! Life is to short to make other people happy!!! YOU need to be happy!!!

HUGS

Connie D.
on 10/20/12 1:40 am

RNY on 08/29/07

Awwww Judy.....I wish moving was an option. In our case it isn't. We are both very close to our families especially our children and in my case grandchildren. We would never ever leave them.

I will be okay. I just know I will never love anyone else like I love Tony. Time to keep moving on!!!

Thanks again sweetie....love you....connie d

Nancy H.
on 10/19/12 9:26 am - Traverse City, MI

RNY on 10/05/05

Connie, my brother married a woman 17 years older than him. He was so happy. She passed away a few years ago. hIs girlfriend now is 15 years older than him now. He is lucky, most people can't find a good person once in a lifetime, hae has found 2.Good luck.
Nan

Connie D.
on 10/19/12 12:30 pm

RNY on 08/29/07

Nan....I know...it isn't fair that Tony and I had to part. I am so happy for your brother. My kids wanted me with someone older and his family thought he was too young to be with someone my age. Although they think a lot of me and are always in touch with me. We have been apart about 5 years now. Neither one of us is happy in the relationships we have had. Oh well.....we couldn't stand the constant harassment. That can wear you down too.

Have a great weekend....love you....connie d

poegirl100
on 10/19/12 11:02 am - Cibolo, TX

RNY on 02/22/11

Connie,

I know it is a little different, but Butch is 13 years older than me. Judy is right. Age is nothing but a number.

Love you!

Vic

Vickie

Connie D.
on 10/19/12 12:42 pm

RNY on 08/29/07

Vickie....you know how it goes....men can date women half their age and get cheered on....women are scorned!!
I couldn't handle the pain anymore.

Thanks for caring....love you....connie d

poegirl100
on 10/20/12 1:17 am - Cibolo, TX

RNY on 02/22/11

Yes, I hear the truth in what you are saying. And I'm sorry, sweetie. However, just to be fair, I have to point out that you have been more than tolerant of your daughters' relationships. "Accepting" and "supportive" are the words that come to mind. Just saying. Sometimes parents (especially mothers) are held to unreasonably high standards by their offspring, hmmm? Maybe this needs to be pointed out to them.

Love you!

Vickie

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