Hope doesn't create results, doing does! This is good even for the Newbies!
What's been on your mind this last month?
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What's been on your mind this last month? Posted: 20 Jul 2011 02:57 AM PDT I jus****ched a quick video by Coach Dungy. I liked the whole clip for it's message but what really jumped out at me is that he answered the question: What's been on your mind for the last month? |
Everytime I try to focus and plan something my plans get changed.
Oh well...this will be my life for a few more years until Grace is older. Love her so much....but like I said not much time for me. I am lucky if I have 5 minutes for breakfast and lunch....just doesn't happen.
Have a great day...hugs.....connie d
Take charge hon and even if it's something little for you like doing your nails or just sitting in the tub to relax just make time, you can do it. How about when Grace takes a nap?
I know something about picking and choosing time management just for you. I had to do that for myself when my step daughter and 2 grand kids lived with us for almost 2 years.
It seemed like they took over my house, my personal space and worse my spare time.
I had to put a stop to that and not let them do that to me.
One hour a day just for you. Find the time, you deserve it. Meditate, walk, do yoga or Pilate's, read a book or magazine. I also gave this advise to one of my elderly volunteers. Her son, DIL and teen grandson moved in for "just a few months"...it's now been over 3 years.
No one can take advantage of us unless we let them.
Yep Connie, take time for yourself, tell your family it's a "must do" for you. One hour is doable.
Baby steps in even taking your life back. Sometime we think we are helping, then we need to stop and ask are we really helping or are we enabling? Hugs hon, hang in there. Debbie
I look forward to things settling down!!
Thanks for caring....hugs....connie d
I also tell myself with my younger grandchildren, they are only babies for such a short time and I thought I would never be a grandma so I really cherish my time with the grand kids.
My first hubby didn't want children so he really played me in my 27 years of marriage. Now my 2nd wonderful hubby has given me the life I've always wanted...children (even though my SD are adults) and grandchildren. I count my blessings!
It's nice having the option of giving the grand kids back to the parents! LOL
You are sleeping because you need it! So rest Connie, you deserve it. Hugs Debbie