WHAT A DAY IT HAS BEEN!!!

Started out taking Bandit for his bath and haircut. Came back home and waited til it was time to go pick him up. Got the "runs". Great. Just what I needed! Time to get Bandit, walked in the door at groomer and she said we have a little problem with Bandit. Oh really? She said his dewclaw is hanging and was bleeding some and she put some stuff on it to stop the bleeding and I need to take him to my vet. Great! So off we went...got home and called the vet and told them about the situation. Could I bring Bandit right away? Hell yes!!! So off we went...well the dr looked at Bandit's dewclaw and said he needed to be put under to have this taken care of. Great! So it would be about an hour wait. Fine. So I went looking around the CVS that was next door. Oh no...the "runs" were back...no bathroom available! Great! Off to McDonalds I noticed down the street!!! Made it just in time!!!!!!! Sighs....sat there for awhile just incase. Time to go back to the vet. Went inside. Dr said Bandit is doing fine and he would be right out with him. I sat down and thought OMG I wonder how much this is going to cost me? Starting to stress out and then they called me to go see Bandit. Dr tells me to keep the bandage dry. Yeah ok...its been raining for like 40 days and 40 nights doc...he says put a baggie over it to keep it dry when we take him outside. OK. The bandage comes off saturday morning. Still keep it from getting wet or dirty for 3 weeks! Great. This is going to be fun. So time to find out how much this is going to cost. So off to the desk we go...$94.00 not as much as I thought it was going to be. But more than it should have because I still think the groomer did this to Bandit!!!!!!! I never noticed ANY blood in the apartment at all so how could she say this was like that when I brought him in this morning? There was no blood in my car either and I have a off white blanket on the back seat of the car. Just ****** me off!!!!!!!! So anyhow I get Bandit home and he is still groggy and all so no problem keeping him resting all afternoon. Went to get my free haircut at 3. While there I get a phone call which I did not answer because I was getting my hair cut. When I was done there I get in my car and see who called. My brother Bill. OMG I am about freaking out because he did not leave me a message!!!!! So I am trying to drive home before I make the call to see what he wanted....I get home and get the courage to call him back. I make the call...he answers...I asked whats wrong...he said nothing...now. I said what do you mean? He said he called me to see if mom was talking to me because he had been trying to call her for over a half hour and the line was busy and he was checking to see if it was me she was talking to and my phone rang so he hung up. I told him thanks for not leaving me a message and scaring me half to death!!!!!!!!!!! He said he thought about that after he did that...GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR so after I get off the phone with him I am in tears with all this that has happened today and I am just not able to deal with another thing today that can go wrong!!!!!!!!!! Oh...mom was talking to my SIL and forgot to hang up the other phone so that is why the phone was busy. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

THEN..........Rick gets a call from his daughter and she tells him that his step dad is making sexual advances towards her and her cousin!!!!!!!!! Rick told her to call the cops on him!!!!!!!! She said she told Diane and she said to not tell her about it because that is just how he is!!!!!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!! I told Rick that his mother and his step dad both need a 2x4 smacked upside their heads!!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe she said that to her!!!!!!!!! That man is sick as hell!!!!!!!!!!!! And if she doesn't call the cops she needs her head smacked as well!!!!!!! I can't take it anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!! CALGONE...TAKE ME AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for listening...just needed to vent!!!!!!!!!

HUGS

 (((((HUGS!!!!!)))))

OMG, what a day you've had.  Sounds like 3 shots at least.  I'm so sorry about Bandit.  Hope he feels better soon.  I'd call the cops myself if it was my daughter.  How absolutely horrific, and for his mom to condone it!  I'd be so f-king mad.  Would never let my daughter or her cousin near either of them again.

Hope you feel better really soon.
Jan

Thankyou Jan!!! This step dad is one jerk that needs to be locked up and soon!!!!!!!! He has gotten away with so many things in his life its not funny and his wife lets it happen too!!!! I will not let this woman get away with it again if I have anything to say about it!!!!!! No way in hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Rick and his step dad never got along and this is just going to start something that I shudder to think about!!! This man is NOT worth Rick going to jail over but I am doing my best to kee***** away from him right now...he is furious trust me!! And if his mom comes over tonight...OMG I am not sure what he will do to her....

Oh, dear, Judy.  You need a break today.  Can you and Rick just go out to eat or go to a movie or something?  Just a couple hours away from all the stress and problems?  It would help you both mentally to "zone" out for awhile!

Just remember to think before you act.  Easier said than done, but you can do it!  Hope little Bandit feels better soon.

Vickie we already ate bubba burgers on the grill tonight...yummmy!!! Got the call after we ate...this with his family has been going on for years and now its starting with his daughter because she is now living at her grandparents with her baby. And no she will not live with us because we have "RULES" and she will not abide by them at all. Soooooooo we or should I say her dad lets her know what he thinks and does she listen to him? NO! So why does she call him? Just so he gets all worked up and wanting to go after his step dad again!!! Keeping my fingers crossed his mom doesn't show up yet tonight!!!

Bandit is feeling alot better now that the grogginess is wore off. Hates the bandage on his leg though but lets me put the plastic baggie over it so it doesn't get wet or dirty when we go outside. ;-) Good boy!!! 

Hugs Judy girl...yes, hopefully you did let Calgone take you away.
Some one needs to make a report on old stepdad and that needs to be done now, this very minute. It's up to all of us to protect children from any type of abuse. It can't be shoved under the carpet and therapy will be needed for the children.

Hope your doggie is doing okay and I would send the bill to the groomer. Hugs hon. Debbie

Debbie...I am feeling better today but still....Rick's step dad takes the prize for sure!!! HE NEEDS TO BE LOCKED UP AND THEN THEY NEED TO THROW THE KEY AWAY!!! Rick talked to his daughter again last night and she told him that her grandpa sneaks down the basement while she is sleeping and tries to touch her!! Rick told her to make sure she has her cell phone near her and turn it on for video and take video of him and call the cops and then she has proof and then he can't get out of it no matter what!!!! As for his mother...OMG!!! She protects that jerk to no end!!! Why? I have no clue!! I know she is scared to death of him. And Jerry has her phone so Nicole can't call her!!!

Bandit is doing better today, his leg is stiff I think with the bandage on it. And I really don't have proof that the groomer did the damage but I know in my heart they did it....grrrrr

HUGS

Hang in there Judy,

First of all even if Rick's daughter doesn't have proof that grandpa's touches her she can still call the police. Chances are this has happened before with other children.
My GF had to call child protective services...also on a grandpa that touched and abused his granddaughter, she was groomed well, only 5 years old, had a headache and asked my GF to rub her private area to make her feel better. GF asked why she would want that done to her and she replied Grandpa always touches me down there to make me feel better. This SOB totally twisted this child around with thinking and that it was all right, that it was suppose to be their special secret and only grandpa could make her feel better. What the hell is wrong with people.
Judy, you just may have to make that call yourself.

This grandpa also kept porn cartoon on the coffee table, was a big drinker and was alone with his granddaughter a lot since his wife was working, they "adopted" this child b/c her mom didn't want her. This madness needs to stop for your daughter.

 

Debbie, Nicole is 20 years old now. She has to make the call herself. And her cousin just turned 18 and if she was still 17 we could get that SOB right away!!! Jerry hasn't touched young kids that I know of. I do know that his brother has. And he is in Alabama if I remember right. I told Rick I wanted to go where he works this morning and ask if he touched any girls lately but Rick said let Nicole handle it. Sooooo I will let her handle it. But I am ready to jump in if she needs me!!! But Rick said she won't call me. Will wait and see.

People are sick and its a sad world for kids to have these people in them!!

HUGS

Ugh...totally!
Tell Nicole to be sure to watch very closely if little kids come around.