sorry gang, I've been sick with gastroenteritis, had to go to ER too. Sigh...
this is good reading, please review and let's be mindful of our eating. Hugs Debbie

Back to basics -- the middle

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Back to basics -- the middle Posted: 03 Feb 2011 02:54 AM PST The last couple posts, we have been talking about the Hunger/Fullness Scale. We have covered both ends but how about the middle? One of the questions I get asked ALOT is, "Do you expect me to only eat when I am hungry?" NO! In our culture, there are any number of reasons to eat -- one of them is for the physical body but a great many of them social (think birthday parties, wakes, business lunches, graduation parties... Not to mention because you are happy, sad, stressed, angry -- need I say more?) What I am asking you to do is be able to accurately label your experience. Be able to understand why you are about to do what you are about to do. That way, if you want to make a change -- you are working with all of the available information. So...the middle of the scale. 4 5 6 Trigger Eating Eating for any reason other than physical hunger!!!!! I use these three numbers all as one (456 instead of 4,5,6) Trigger eating is eating for any reason other than physical hunger. (Bored, sad, etc but also because it is noon and that is lunch time even though you aren't really hungry, the piece of pie your neighbor offers when you go over to visit, the obligatory appetizer when you are out with friends) Sometimes, clients get a little nervous about "admitting" to a 456. There is nothing wrong with eating for reasons other than hunger!! What I am asking you to do is understand this is your behavior -- learn to differentiate trigger eating from physical hunger. The last number on the scale is a level 7. It is the trickiest but possibly the most useful number on the whole scale. More on the virtues of the 7 tomorrow.

Good morning Debbie.....sorry to hear you were in so much pain. Glad you feel better now.

I am not doing well with my eating especially in the last two weeks. I am working hard on getting back on track.

I continue to read and think a lot about your posts. I appreciate you taking the time to do this every day.

Hugs.....connie d

Hugs right back to you Connie!
I'll nip this unwellness in the bag one of these days.

as for your getting back on track, it will come, just don't beat yourself up about it. Life goes on and we are more important than some number on the scale. Soon, it will all fall in place for you. Until then my friend, try to take some walks to refresh your mind. You are loved! Deb