Today's Reflection

Laureen S.
on 12/22/10 7:20 pm - Maple Shade, NJ
Slow down and let go

On a road trip up the California coast a while back, I tried to call home only to find that the battery in my cell phone had died. I worried. What if someone needed to get in touch with me? What if there was a problem with the house? What if my family couldn't find me and got worried?

I passed the exit to the beach that I had always wanted to see.

I obsessed some more.

I stopped for breakfast at a restaurant overlooking the Pacific ocean. I asked if they had a pay phone. They didn't. I barely noticed the stunning view, the smell or the sound of the surf, and I can't remember eating my eggs and toast.

I put off seeing things until another trip; I took the freeway and got home early.

When I got home, there were no messages. No one had needed me; no one had even been aware that I was gone. But I had missed out on the treasures of the trip. I had spent so much time obsessing; I could barely remember where I'd been.

God, help me enjoy where I am right now.


My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . .  It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . .  Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination."  Ben Sweetland

Candygirl
on 12/22/10 10:11 pm - Somewhere in, NY
OUCH!!!!!

That one really, really hit home.  I continue to work on that.

Thank you, Laureen.

 

(deactivated member)
on 12/23/10 10:08 pm - Somewhere IN, TX
Oh, no, Louise... I remember that ride up the California Coast vividly... and we obsessed on nothing!! 

Well, okay, you did obsess on that cowboy at the diner.

Thelma
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