Now I cry

Dear lady: 

Tears were given to us for a reason.  Tears are droplets of poison that need to be released to detoxify us from our trauma.  Cry...it is human..it is necessary...nothing causes more pain that unreleased tears.

I dont know what happened becauser Ive been unable to get onthis site for the last week but crying is necessary...let yourself cry...it is very healing *hugs*

Nancy B

Prayers being uplifted for you. Please take care and feel better soon!

Blessings,

Debbie

Julia,

I'm trying to play catch up and read about the severity of your car accident.  Oh my gosh, please GET well soon.  Wishing you healing.

Debbie

Hi!

I am so sorry about your accident.  It must have been horrifying for you.  It takes a couple of days to realize what you actually went through.  I know you will heal in time, sometimes the mental issues  take longer to heal than the actual physical one's.

Hang in there, and I really hate to see you go through all of this.

You have my support anytime it's needed

Peace

You certainly have every reason to cry!  It was a horrifying experience for you and I'm sure you are reliving it and realizing how close you came to debilitating injury or death.  You are very lucky, but let those emotions out so you can heal both physically and mentally.

Oh Julia, I had to go back and read about it. Sounds terrible. When I first read the title, I thought ... oh no, she had a recurrence of the cancer. I'm glad it's not that ... I'm glad you're OK. Have a good cry, as long and hard as you want. I'm rather emotional anyway, and whenever anything happens to me, no matter how small, I will cry for several days (I did with the layoff ... I think I cried on and off for two weeks).

An accident is emotionally wrenching experience ... you deserve a chance to emote.

Aloha Julia....OMIGOD...I just read about your accident........I would have been a noodle after something like that I think. It's those very HUGE things that happen in life that we get through that will change who we are. Suddenly life can take on a new brighter meaning having survived something in which we could easily have died.

Let go as often and as much as you can...tears, rage, fear.......if it comes out...it's not inside of you fermenting and making you sick. That's what I do....I "stuff it" and then I get stomach aches, headaches, anywhere aches. I always feel better with a good cry....and wish I could do it more. Tears don't come easily to me...but when they do happen....it's like flushing the poison out of my core.

I am so thankful you are still with us. Please take care of yourself, and know that you are loved, appreciated and respected.

Aloha nui loa,

Maui Karen