Now I cry

seasheleyes
on 5/21/10 4:27 am - Manteca, CA
I guess I thought I came through the accident unscathed. The trauma of it ha**** it's time to cry I guess. The pain is controlled pretty well with drugs. But I'm not doing as well emotionally just now. Thanks for all of your thoughts....
Pat R.
on 5/21/10 4:52 am - Sturgis, MI
Julia my friend, it's okay to cry - tears are healing to our soul.  God has spared you for a reason, so rejoice in that thought. 

You are in my heart and thoughts.    Prayers for healing, comfort, and strength.

Hugs,
Pat R.

 
 


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on 5/21/10 5:08 am - Somewhere IN, TX
Yep, it's time to cry,..... because now you realize how precious life really is... and you aren't going to miss any of it... and that your family is rejoicing having you around...

Doesn't hurt for any of us to realize our mortality. I will admit, however, you've had more than your share...

Cry tears of joy... and then do what you do best.... SNORE.

Janet
seasheleyes
on 5/21/10 11:27 pm - Manteca, CA
You are so funny! I don't snore since I lost all that weight... By the way- remember standing in the standing up in the moon roof area on the curvy road?  That's the car that bit the dust. Nect time you will be acting crazed in a new car!
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on 5/22/10 3:14 pm - Somewhere IN, TX
I can only imagine the trauma of a wreck like the one you had.  When I was rear-ended last year with my grandkids inside and the car was totalled, it hit me about a week later... and then I lost it.  It still plagues me today when I get on the freeway. 

Getting a new car is traumatic as well.  I overbought (but what else is new).  I was in a hurry to get something and didn't shop as well as I usually do.. and I'm paying...:)

Julia, they now call that post traumatic syndrome.... who knew?

There's a name for everything.  I think it's gratitude we are alive and survived and just being a woman with a hormonal attitude!! 

Janet
Nancy H.
on 5/21/10 5:20 am - Traverse City, MI
I am so sorry. I can't imagine how scarey that was. Please just try to take it easy & let your body heal. The rest will come with time.
Nan
Margo M.
on 5/21/10 5:26 am - Elyria, OH
i was afraid this reality would hit you...julia...listen to the sistas and know how precious you are to us....

I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
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Bev_M
on 5/21/10 5:32 am - Shelton, CT
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Julia,
My sisters and I were just talking about how we hardly cry anymore and we really should.  Crying is very therapeutic.  If you're physically hurting, it helps.  If you're mentally hurting, it helps.  If you're angry, it helps.  When you've had a close call, it helps.

I was telling my girlfriend about a hurtful thing my DIL did to me.  She said you need to cry the next time she does something like that.  Don't be so stoic.

It's a great release, so go ahead and cry.
(((HUGS)))
Bev


Laureen S.
on 5/21/10 6:46 am - Maple Shade, NJ
Julia,

Everyone said so much and it's all true. . .  you experienced a great trauma and came away, from what you've stated, with a minimum of what could have been.  Tears are more than expressions of grief.  I am an emotional being, I cry at commericals, I even cry when I read sappy cards in a card store (which is part of the reason I stopped buying cards). . . I cry when overwhemed with joy and I've certainly wept with any of the losses in my life.  I've heard it said, that "obese" people have suppressed their tears with food and now that you live a different life, you certainly are not going there. . .  have a good cry and release all that pent up emotion from you experience of the other day.  As the others have said and I will say it again, I'm sure your family and those whose lives you touch, after all you are a teacher, as well as all of us, are happy that you came away with relatively minor trauma and that you will live to experience more of what life can be!  

Hugs, Laureen


My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . .  It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . .  Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination."  Ben Sweetland

annette R.
on 5/21/10 10:24 am - ithaca, NY
Julia,

After all you have endured - crying is a good release. Have a good cry,Crying Into Tissue wash your face and feel better. We are glad you came through with relatively few injuries.
Annette
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