OT note from son
Susan, I am so glad that things are working out for the better. I knew they would...your son and Tess seem to be to level headed not to seek the end of problems.
You and Gary did a great job raising him...he sounds like a sweetheart and a sweetheart that married another sweetheart.
Have a nice time and enjoy your together time today.
You and Gary did a great job raising him...he sounds like a sweetheart and a sweetheart that married another sweetheart.
Have a nice time and enjoy your together time today.
It's not what you gather, but what you scatter
that tells what kind of life you have lived.
Aloha dearheart.....I missed your post yesterday so went back and found it. I'm so glad that you posted this morning the process that is happening. Sometimes things just have to blow up for us to get really intimate with each other and speak from our hearts. This is for sure an opportunity for you to get closer with your son and with Tess. I can tell by his response that he is sensitive and loves you tremendously. I have a feeling that a lot of stuff not about you went into his original "rant."
I'm so glad that your OFF family gave you so much love and support yesterday.
With so much aloha,
Maui Karen
I'm so glad that your OFF family gave you so much love and support yesterday.
With so much aloha,
Maui Karen
Dear Susan, I do understand how hurt your heart is. Children, flesh of our flesh, or children of our hearts, seem to have a rough time remembering that parents have feelings .
I do hope that when you and your loved ones have a chance to talk, every one will show respect for the other.
Hold them close to your heart, but let them fly, if it is ment to be, they will grow into Adults with a clue of how deep your love for them is. Peg
I do hope that when you and your loved ones have a chance to talk, every one will show respect for the other.
Hold them close to your heart, but let them fly, if it is ment to be, they will grow into Adults with a clue of how deep your love for them is. Peg
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AND ALL OUR HERO'S
Peg, you're so wonderful to respond. Thank you!
I know everything will be fine. I really not an interferrer, honestly. Maybe that's his problem, I haven't said enough. He wan't encouragement and support, and I'm having trouble supporting some of his decisions.
It's okay, it'll get better
hugs and smoochies
I know everything will be fine. I really not an interferrer, honestly. Maybe that's his problem, I haven't said enough. He wan't encouragement and support, and I'm having trouble supporting some of his decisions.
It's okay, it'll get better
hugs and smoochies
Susan
I'm glad you're getting together to talk this over. It's better to discuss this in person than in e-mail. I think too many things are done in e-mail instead of in person these days.
You know he loves you, but as you said, he tends to overreact, you tend to do the same. I do the same too. Then I think things through when I calm down. My psychologist says I have a hysterical personality. Ha! Well, that about says it.
You know we're all here for you ... always.
You know he loves you, but as you said, he tends to overreact, you tend to do the same. I do the same too. Then I think things through when I calm down. My psychologist says I have a hysterical personality. Ha! Well, that about says it.
You know we're all here for you ... always.
I know Iam the original PollyAnna But I see this working out just fine, maybe with even better communication. Sounds to me like something else might have been bothering him and you got vented upon. Sounds like he IS truely sorry.. Yes I love the taking of the birthday and turning in of belly buttons, I wish I had thought of those when my kids were little. All I ever did was threaten my daughter with a convent in the swiss Alps..Blessings to you all
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