OT Can a female be impotent??
Sweety,
You laid down the ground rules and Romeo wasn't listening. Or maybe he was listening with his "little head" instead of his brain?
No, you are not a tease nor are you wrong. Romeo on the other hand, jumped the gun and wanted to take more than you were willing to give.
Hold on to your morals and wait for the hearts and flowers.
I'm going to go out a limb and offer a suggestion. IF, BIG IF, Romeo calls again, give him a chance to talk and explain himself. It sounds like he has been a friend and even friends can make an error. (maybe me right now?) If he can't give you a super duper perfect explaination - tell him to go f#%k himself.
You know the situation, you know your gut feelings, trust in yourself and do what feels right for you.
Love ya'
Annette
You laid down the ground rules and Romeo wasn't listening. Or maybe he was listening with his "little head" instead of his brain?
No, you are not a tease nor are you wrong. Romeo on the other hand, jumped the gun and wanted to take more than you were willing to give.
Hold on to your morals and wait for the hearts and flowers.
I'm going to go out a limb and offer a suggestion. IF, BIG IF, Romeo calls again, give him a chance to talk and explain himself. It sounds like he has been a friend and even friends can make an error. (maybe me right now?) If he can't give you a super duper perfect explaination - tell him to go f#%k himself.
You know the situation, you know your gut feelings, trust in yourself and do what feels right for you.
Love ya'
Annette
Annette 
The old I thought I left a light on trick eh? roflmao Glad to hear you were not embarassed.
Well baby doll ... you were sending him "mixed messages" and he probably thought you were in to it too. It is obvious he just plain doesn't turn you on. You need to determine if this is a just platonic relationship or if you want more. If you don't want more, you really need to tell him that there is no way this is going to another level.
Well baby doll ... you were sending him "mixed messages" and he probably thought you were in to it too. It is obvious he just plain doesn't turn you on. You need to determine if this is a just platonic relationship or if you want more. If you don't want more, you really need to tell him that there is no way this is going to another level.
I'M AT GOAL! I do not send mixed messages. I said we could work on our friendship and growing closer,if there is something mixed about that,I must be speaking swahili.
It is not my fault he stepped out of line,I am far from one of those women who say "It must have been something I did".
Love ya babes,we are just all different..
If you put on a swimsuit and go swimming with a man,are you sending him a message?
We went to 2 ballgames,1 movie,and I went to his place twice,whoa..sounds like I am a harlot...LOL!
It is not my fault he stepped out of line,I am far from one of those women who say "It must have been something I did".
Love ya babes,we are just all different..
If you put on a swimsuit and go swimming with a man,are you sending him a message?
We went to 2 ballgames,1 movie,and I went to his place twice,whoa..sounds like I am a harlot...LOL!
WHAT WE FEAR,WE CREATE.
i think the fact that you changed into something more comfy even if it did go to the floor may have sent the wrong message to him...go back to annette asking which head was thinking--you may not realize that your message was mixed- you may not have intended it...you were in a lounger, you were lying down -even if it was next to him, you were rubbing his back...many men -and women--would expect more.........and i do think maybe letting him talk might be a good thing--however--if you really think that right now is not a good time-follow your instinct!!!! even tho your body has shrunk you are a big girl and your big girl panties allow you to be responsible for your emotions and actions and i remain proud that you didn't do something you didn't feel right about!!!!! men and women alike will sometimes perform "the act" simply to keep someone attentive when the right feelings are not there--you know what i mean !!!!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
Maybe you are right doll. I think maybe if I explain more:This man was badly burned in a fire saving 3 children,He has poor sight and a badly burned front chest.
When he said his back was hurting,I was on the phone with him,and said the next time I see you I will give you a back rub.it
I have put on a lounger there before and honest to God it covers everything,I could wear it in front of the pope.
When I massaged him,I was not laying down beside him. I told this man time and again what he could expect from me.
I guess some people just hear what they want to here...
Heck Monica,I never even kissed him before.
I hope he understands and is not hurt,I did enjoy his company,but it can never be anymore.
Thanks babe.
When he said his back was hurting,I was on the phone with him,and said the next time I see you I will give you a back rub.it
I have put on a lounger there before and honest to God it covers everything,I could wear it in front of the pope.
When I massaged him,I was not laying down beside him. I told this man time and again what he could expect from me.
I guess some people just hear what they want to here...
Heck Monica,I never even kissed him before.
I hope he understands and is not hurt,I did enjoy his company,but it can never be anymore.
Thanks babe.
WHAT WE FEAR,WE CREATE.
My dear friend (and I hope you don't mind, but I do consider you as such). I was not going to respond, giving you women your space, but then I got to the bottom and you did thank the dudes and dudettes. And Mark responded, so I am more comfortable responding.
This non-gentleman just lost something good. You are such a wonderful lady. That is the problem. He probably did not want a lady. Call me an old fogey, but I get sick of how quick people jump into bed with someone these days. Even with this being a couple of months, you are probably considered slow by today's standards. The thing is, you have your own standards. Your morals seem to be where they should be. God bless you for holding to them. His morals aren't the same as yours. So, it was destined not to work. You have to be on the same page. He apparently is in a different book.
Bottom line. Don't give up. There is someone out there. Enjoy the search for him. You may never find him. That does not mean you should not have fun in your life. Don't give up. And don't give in. You are a catch the way you are.
This non-gentleman just lost something good. You are such a wonderful lady. That is the problem. He probably did not want a lady. Call me an old fogey, but I get sick of how quick people jump into bed with someone these days. Even with this being a couple of months, you are probably considered slow by today's standards. The thing is, you have your own standards. Your morals seem to be where they should be. God bless you for holding to them. His morals aren't the same as yours. So, it was destined not to work. You have to be on the same page. He apparently is in a different book.
Bottom line. Don't give up. There is someone out there. Enjoy the search for him. You may never find him. That does not mean you should not have fun in your life. Don't give up. And don't give in. You are a catch the way you are.
GOD BLESS AMERICA!!!!!
Hello Linda.....you did nothing wrong...he did!!
You hold tight to your values. You are a lovely lady and I mean a LADY!
He jumped the gun on this one. A true gentleman wouldn't have done that.
There is nothing wrong with your sex drive. You just haven't met the right man. If you chose not to be with someone again that is your choice too.
I am proud of you!!!!!
Much love and hugs.....Boo...to you!
You hold tight to your values. You are a lovely lady and I mean a LADY!
He jumped the gun on this one. A true gentleman wouldn't have done that.
There is nothing wrong with your sex drive. You just haven't met the right man. If you chose not to be with someone again that is your choice too.
I am proud of you!!!!!
Much love and hugs.....Boo...to you!
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