OT Can a female be impotent??
Don't ever say 'never'. Men are just different animals. They are driven by a different set of feelings. However, we (women) have emerged as a strong force and I think in a lot of ways, have emasculated men because of it. We no longer require the same things we thought we were supposed to do... Men have that ego thing going on and want that and other things stroked occasionally.... I'm sure that the men on this board will probably disagree..or not, really not sure.
I love men. I'm just not willing to put myself out there for any shenangigans unless it's on my terms.
Janet
I have been married 3 times, 1st one died,2nd one drunkerd,3rd one decided he wanted a russian half my age,he is so sorry now,I don't hate him,never will.
I have married a Black man,and Irishman,and an Italian German,turn them upside down and they all look alike.
The truth for me Janet is a strong as I maybe,I am like butter with the man I adore.
WHAT WE FEAR,WE CREATE.
Happy Resurrection Day.
Margo's response was my exact response to you. You are fine, not impotent at all.
Just like the other poster said too next time you meet with any "Romeo" just go for dinner, movie, events and such until you feel that is right to meet in an intimate setting.
You look wonderful keep up the great work.
With Love,
Cira
I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
I think I am done for now,maybe forever,they are such a bother.
The best thing that came out of this is I found I was not as up tight about my shrunken body as I thought I would be....or maybe I just didn't give a darn
That's a pretty baby you have there...smile.
WHAT WE FEAR,WE CREATE.
For years & years I went without any & was just fine with that. Now that Men pay attention I kinda wish I could go back to that status of not wanting or caring about the
sex again. Maybe then my life would not be so screwed up.
To make a long story very short I am in love with a Man that is already married, Another one is trying to get back in my life that tried to kill me last july (Not happening
in this lifetime) & a third that I currently live with & don't want to, but, have to until the
job comes along. So I believe you did the right thing by leaving when you did, if you were not ready for that step. Yes, Marc was right from the guy standards, the massage
should lead to other things, but, not necessarily true. Take care & Happy Easter
God bless them all. Good luck on your quest sister!
WHAT WE FEAR,WE CREATE.
