OT Can a female be impotent??
Ok,so I am sitting around doing nothing last night (one of my favorite things),and Romeo invites me to a late dinner,and a movie.
We ate and went to his place,I have never had him to my place,that huge test we had to take before WLS says I have intimacy issues..."no shyte Sherlock".
I go into his extra bedroom to take off my clothes and put on a lounger,not sexy,but Morracan (sp) and lovley. He opens the door and catches me in my panties and bra...surprise,I did not freak out,he said he thought he left the light on,I told him he was a old perv,and laughed.
So we lay down on his blow up mattress he puts up in his livingroom for me so I can feel comfy and NOT be in his bed.I had mentioned off handily that I would give him a back massage when we were on the phone because he had a lot of pain. I did it,with soothing lavender oil,and I prayed,I do believe in healing hands through benevolent energy. He started moaning and I asked him if he was alright,he said yes,and I finished up. He said his legs could use a massage and I told him good luck with that,and told him where Olivia and I go for massages.
He asked me to hold him,I told him I was not up to that. Anyway,all of a sudden this queen sized mattress shrunk cause he could no****ch the movie without cozying up to me,and moving about.
I got up,called my daughter and went outside and waited for her to pick me up. It was 1AM and he said he was so sorry he bored me so much I had to leave. I figured going outside would stop a situation from escalating.
1-I was surprised it did not bother me for him to me in my under wear. 2-I was totally turned off with him,where I had enjoyed cuddling with him the last time. 3-I have felt depressed all day and shall miss him,for I enjoyed his friendship.
Ladies,all of a sudden, I could not stand his smell or anything. He asked me when the last time I had made love,last week,last month,I said about 5 years.
I like men,but I think the best route to a woman's vejayjay is through her heart, He did not let my feelings grow.
I also have serious moral feelings about sex,can't help it...it's in me. Strong strict parents.but I know I can enjoy sex,but love has to be there for me to feel that God is ok with it as am I.
I had tried to hold this in,but I could not,I do not want to be depressed and I have too much going on to let this be another issue.
I am sorry if I hurt him,but I did tell him several times he was crowding me,I then prepared to leave.
Am I a tease?? Am I wrong?? I can not picture myself sweating and puffing like a damn teenager,rolling around on a blow up mattress. I am used to the hearts and flowers.
Anyway,I feel so burned out,and sad,I doubt I will be stepping out again anytime soon. I get a lot of compliments, and that is kind to get that from the guys,but I think I am done.
Thanks for listening dudes,and dudettes.
We ate and went to his place,I have never had him to my place,that huge test we had to take before WLS says I have intimacy issues..."no shyte Sherlock".
I go into his extra bedroom to take off my clothes and put on a lounger,not sexy,but Morracan (sp) and lovley. He opens the door and catches me in my panties and bra...surprise,I did not freak out,he said he thought he left the light on,I told him he was a old perv,and laughed.
So we lay down on his blow up mattress he puts up in his livingroom for me so I can feel comfy and NOT be in his bed.I had mentioned off handily that I would give him a back massage when we were on the phone because he had a lot of pain. I did it,with soothing lavender oil,and I prayed,I do believe in healing hands through benevolent energy. He started moaning and I asked him if he was alright,he said yes,and I finished up. He said his legs could use a massage and I told him good luck with that,and told him where Olivia and I go for massages.
He asked me to hold him,I told him I was not up to that. Anyway,all of a sudden this queen sized mattress shrunk cause he could no****ch the movie without cozying up to me,and moving about.
I got up,called my daughter and went outside and waited for her to pick me up. It was 1AM and he said he was so sorry he bored me so much I had to leave. I figured going outside would stop a situation from escalating.
1-I was surprised it did not bother me for him to me in my under wear. 2-I was totally turned off with him,where I had enjoyed cuddling with him the last time. 3-I have felt depressed all day and shall miss him,for I enjoyed his friendship.
Ladies,all of a sudden, I could not stand his smell or anything. He asked me when the last time I had made love,last week,last month,I said about 5 years.
I like men,but I think the best route to a woman's vejayjay is through her heart, He did not let my feelings grow.
I also have serious moral feelings about sex,can't help it...it's in me. Strong strict parents.but I know I can enjoy sex,but love has to be there for me to feel that God is ok with it as am I.
I had tried to hold this in,but I could not,I do not want to be depressed and I have too much going on to let this be another issue.
I am sorry if I hurt him,but I did tell him several times he was crowding me,I then prepared to leave.
Am I a tease?? Am I wrong?? I can not picture myself sweating and puffing like a damn teenager,rolling around on a blow up mattress. I am used to the hearts and flowers.
Anyway,I feel so burned out,and sad,I doubt I will be stepping out again anytime soon. I get a lot of compliments, and that is kind to get that from the guys,but I think I am done.
Thanks for listening dudes,and dudettes.
WHAT WE FEAR,WE CREATE.
no answers- just hugs....and very proud of you for standing your ground ( and removing yourself ) rather then "playing along" to make only him happy
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
Wow.... where do I begin? 
Lessee.... since you don't mind being seen in bra and panties, i would like to place an order for an 8 X 10 glossy and a couple of wallet size
A couple of things sweetie.... if you are nearly nekkid and laying in bed with a man and rubbing his back... then really, you shouldn' be surprized if he thinks this is going to go farther... you girls have your foreplay, mostly romance eh... and we have ours... touch is numero uno ...
The main thing that bothers me about this is..... well, let's see... how do I say this tactfully... hmmm... oh well, screw tact, here it is... a REAL man would understand and be more concerned with your feelings and making you happy than just getting a little uhh... whadyacallit?... vejayjay?
In my not-ever-humble opinion, he missed a chance to help you out... and show some class... his loss for sure.
Now, about those pictures... do you have one with your lips in the middle of saying "vejayjay"?
Lessee.... since you don't mind being seen in bra and panties, i would like to place an order for an 8 X 10 glossy and a couple of wallet size
A couple of things sweetie.... if you are nearly nekkid and laying in bed with a man and rubbing his back... then really, you shouldn' be surprized if he thinks this is going to go farther... you girls have your foreplay, mostly romance eh... and we have ours... touch is numero uno ...
The main thing that bothers me about this is..... well, let's see... how do I say this tactfully... hmmm... oh well, screw tact, here it is... a REAL man would understand and be more concerned with your feelings and making you happy than just getting a little uhh... whadyacallit?... vejayjay?
In my not-ever-humble opinion, he missed a chance to help you out... and show some class... his loss for sure.
Now, about those pictures... do you have one with your lips in the middle of saying "vejayjay"?
LOL Marc,I made sure I wore a lounger that covered EVERTHING as a matter of fact,it was actually made in a modest style,Olivia says it is called shalwar kamiz.which I think means you can't see my knees..LOL.
Think Bollywood outfit without a bare midriff,and I massaged from the side,not in a laying position.
I feel badly because I liked him,and do not want to hurt him.I think I did.
Good to see ya big brother.
Think Bollywood outfit without a bare midriff,and I massaged from the side,not in a laying position.
I feel badly because I liked him,and do not want to hurt him.I think I did.
Good to see ya big brother.
WHAT WE FEAR,WE CREATE.
Sounds like it might be better if you and Romeo went out on dates for a while until you get more comfortable with him. Meeting at each others apartments is too intimate to begin, especially if you know you aren't ready for it. Marc is right, backrubs to a guy can only lead to one thing and it's no****ching a movie. If you want to see him again, call him, tell him you're sorry and you would like to develop the friendship further before moving on to the next step. Then go out somewhere when you see him. Dinners, movies, concerts, car shows, sports events, etc.
Marc, I just knew you were out there doing nekkid things while you were missng.
Marc, I just knew you were out there doing nekkid things while you were missng.
Barbara D.
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