I'm so scared

Debbie G.
on 12/27/08 6:54 pm - Derby Line, VT
Wow Jean,
What an ordeal.  I can't add any other words of wisdom, but to say you take care of you and do what you need to do. 

Debbie G
Lap RNY 12/12/05
320 highest, 302 consultation, 289 surgery. Total weight loss:165lbs.
 
      

sheri139
on 12/27/08 8:53 pm - Ottawa, Canada
RNY on 11/05/08 with
Oh Jean what a horrible thing to happen.
You are in my prayers and I pray that this will go away for you.
Please make sure the nursing home knows that he is out there and that will protect your mom.
You are one brave, strong woman.  Please let yourself be surrounded by love and good vibes from your husband and all of your family on OFF.
Sheri
RNY ohcardsmallsheri.gif picture by lynnca1972 Nov 5, 2008
16 pounds lost pre surgery    
grammylew
on 12/27/08 9:31 pm - Jacksonville, NC

Jean, Be strong!  Get the help you need.  Thank God your husband was there.  Protect yourself and your Mom, no matter what it takes!    I doubt if changing your number would help.  In this day and age, I'm sure he could find it somehow.  And perhaps if he found that form of communication 'cut off', he might try to get closer.

We are ALWAYS here!  Lean on us.  Lean on your husband.  Talk to whomever you need to talk to.  Be strong!

My prayers are with you.

Grammylew in Jax

 

KathiKins
on 12/27/08 9:53 pm - CA
Sending an extra prayer, Jean.

If counseling can help, do it.  It certainly can't hurt.  Keep thinking at least it's only a phone call.  The phone offers you distance.

Keep expressing the thoughts so you get them out of your system.  The stress of this can be overwhelming.

Cuddle those puppies and your hubby. 

Hugs,

Kathi
Over_the-Rainbow
on 12/28/08 3:20 pm - Hopkins, MN
Hi Jean, sweetie, you're in my thoughts and prayers for your safety and emotional stability.  I've nothing to add to what's been said.  However, would it be possible to have his number permanently blocked from your incoming calls?  My cell phone is my primary phone, and if I get an unexpected call from a number not in my cell directory, I let it go to voice mail.  That's a good method for me to 'screen' calls.  Just my two cents....may God hold you and your mother in His hand and only allow you to go through what He will bring you out from.  I know there are many, many prayers being said for you.  Much love and many compassionate hugs!  Patti  (I've been incredibly busy now that I've been able to get out and about post-surgery, and the last thing I want to do is sit at the computer like I did those six weeks being home-bound!  Take care of you hon!)
Never let your memories be greater than your dreams.

Connie D.
on 12/29/08 2:29 am
Jean....my heart is breaking for you...bless your heart.

I am so glad you were not alone. Please keep someone near by.

Get the professional help you feel you need. These are not issues that will just go away.

We are all here for you. Post anytime....we all care very much!

Love and hugs....connie d

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