Ok Linda ... hot date Tuesday night

haha George ... that HOT thing happened with Marc the other day and here he was sick! Even your face looks redder in your avatar. I am surprised we haven't seen him on this thread? He must be really sick!

Girls like to have fun too! Yes ... we can be very ornery. We need to let loose a little too.

It is hard to feel comfortable about our new bodies. We have always felt inferior and embarassed ... low self esteem issues. I know that I feel good about how I look as long as I am covered up! But then ... when I see my horrible abdomen and inner thighs it just breaks my heart. After all we go through we end up slender with THAT BAGGAGE. I find it is easier to laugh (about it) than to cry.

Oh I get the feeling this guy is hoping to get lucky tonight.

 Ya Know,  I've been single 10 years now, as of Dec 1st...   I was married 32 years and thought I was going to be married forever... Divorce is hard, single life complicated..

Now....  to what I want to say.......  If you really really don't want to be intimate with this man you need to let him know up front.  Dinner at his home is him setting the stage....  He is in control of the date, time, etc.....  I don't know how well you know him but he is trying to  make you comfortable and please you but..... as Marc & George say...  they are simple creatures... and just want ... well, what they want and it is  not always just sex.  MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.  THEN MAKE SURE HE KNOWS WHAT YOU WANT.  No surprises...  with so much at stake (your mental health) be sure to communicate.  Don't be talked into anything you aren't ready for  AND don't deny yourself something you want out of insecurities.

One man I dated loved my "rubinesque" body and another thought I was wonderful but I was too heavy.  Go figure... One didn't care how much weight I gained he loved who I am.

Best Wishes for a wonderful evening.... and the beginning of a new relationship.

Millie

Ohhhh I get you there Millie. Yes he is setting the stage. But I am ready to walk or clean his clock ... whatever need be ... haha. No offense to our fellas here, but men have different views of a date than we ladies do. If he tries to nail me I may have to pull the hammer out of my purse and bop him one. haha (I do carry a little kit in my vehicle which has a pretty nifty hammer - and I am not afraid to use it). I will be up front with him and already have been. I made it clear I am a nice lady and want more than a roll in the hay. So we shall see? I also made sure my g/f has his name, address & phone number