Is there a REASON why we can't be happy with ourselves???

What they all said ... you're swollen from the surgery. Give it time.

I'd like to be 155, get rid of my gut and get into smaller jeans, but I am too scared to have plastics because of all the problems I've had with this stinking knee.

 

Hey, I wear 16 jeans ... I used to wear 30W ... I'm happy in 16s. I know if I got rid of the panni I'd get to smaller sizes, but I don't have the money, so I'll be happy with the 16s. As for the rest of my bod ... well, I always had big boobs, still got those, but now they stretch farther down.

I think it is "conditioned in to us" to not be satisfied or to love ourselves. Also, we are all built differently and we need to accept that (genetics). We all need to learn to accept and love ourselves. ((((( hugs )))))