SOMEBODY LIE TO ME.......

Hi Cutie.......It's evening and I just logged on to see what's up with my OFF peeps, and there was your post. I'm afraid I laughed.....sorry, darlin....but you are just so cute in the way you express yourself.

You WILL lose weight.....a bunch I'm guessing with this surgery. Just remember that you will get some good drugs to help you through the pain (if there is any).....and don't be all brave and NOT take the meds! I have a neighbor who is constantly in pain but doesn't want to get "hooked" on pain meds so she just is in agony much of the time. She's 84 years old for god's sake! So what if she does get hooked?????

I had completely forgotten sending you a muu muu. Now that you mention it, I'm going to wear one to Honolulu for my surgery in Dec., too. I'll just wear a big tent and no one will know what is going on under neath.......ha! I can't wait for about two months to pass so you can come in and tell us how cute you look in your itty bitty panties!!

Good luck, sweetheart.........and KNOW that you are loved!

Aloha nui loa,

Maui Karen

Karen,

I think I was just having a 'moment'.  The work hours have been so long (my choice) and I think I've just put myself there so I don't have to face anything personal I have to do.  Being the psychologist, you'll be analyzing this, I'm sure. 

However, me'n'you, you'n'me just gotta hang together. We're about to be lushus and bootiful and svelte...  AND HOOKED ON PHONICS

Yep, I'm wearing the muumuu. 

I know you have have as many friends as I....but for some reason, those that really KNOW  and CARE.... are right here.

Mager lackanookie

Texas Janet

Oh Janet..I do wish that I was closer..I'd come and babysit with you *s*...Id cook for you too..lots of good protein homemade soups and fun things.

A local friend of mine just had her tummy tuck and they removed thirty-five pounds off her belly alone!  she looks amazing! 

I do understand what you mean about suddenly gaining some..I always seem to just before my appointment with my surgeon for a check-up.

And dont try to be so tough..you ARE human...laugh..cry..whatever you need to do..we are all here for you, girlfriend!  Call me ANYTIME!  or catch me on yahoo..Im always up late at night.

*hugs*

Nancy B

WE LOVE YOU!!!!

Hi Janet,

Wish we were all closer to all take care of you right now.  I'm convinced the nerves you are feeling are very normal.  I know you're gonna lose some weight with this surgery and I know you're going to be the stellar patient, too!

Don't know if it's going to hurt but if prayers do any good, you've got some from me.

Whine away there in Texas.  Might not do any good but you're entitled!

Hugs,

Kathi

Janet, while I'm not much of a nurse, or a house keeper, I'm a pretty good cook.  If I lived closer, you wouldn't have to worry about meals.  I'd stock your freezer.  Hope your fears are calmed and those pounds fall off.
Love you too, Debbie 

My darling Janet, please just take a moment to have some deep breaths and know that you are in the right place for some lovin' from your family. We all love you and if your house was big enough I am sure that the bunch of your siblings would be there to help you do everything but breathing. ha ha

I really think that you need to keep your eye on the prize~a totally whole Janet! Wow! That is going to be totally amazing. You are going to be totally amazing. What I wouldn't give to get rid of this unused apron I have on. I don't even use an apron to cook, probably because I don't need one since I carry one everywhere I go. Someone told me yesterday that I don't look like I weigh 185 and it is probably because these jeans I have on smoo**** all in. Thank God for the wonders of some clothing.

I am keeping you in my prayers. Know that I love you and would do anything I could for you. Unfortunately since I live in IN it isn't easy to get to you. But our little "home" here makes us close no matter how far away from each other we are. Just remember to feel the big but gentle hugs that I am sending to you. Know that I love you and feel the warmth of that love. I am praying that God keeps you now and always in the safety and warmth of His arms and extends to you all the love, peace, acceptance and calmness that I know only He can do.

It's gonna be all you hope for and more.  Warm fuzzies, Linda

Janet....you are going to do just great! I too wish I could be there to help you. We could all come and have one huge slummber party!!

I am sure  that weight will disappear as well as alittle more!

My thoughts and prayers are with you sweetie.

Hugs, connie d

Ok Janet.....I understand so completely what you are going through. I had such reservations before my PS - breast reduction, breast lift, panni removal, hernia repair, and tummy tuck. The thought of more surgery filled me with dread. But I knew I could not live with all the hanging skin and the pain it caused me daily, never mind the rashes and smell.
The doctor removed 12 lbs of skin. Eventually the constant neck, shoulder, and back pain went away.
The time after PS was intense. The pain was controlled, valium helped the most so I didn't have spasms and the vicodin was good too. The binders are so important. I wore them for many months. I did have problems eating and drinking, so I really had to make myself do it.
The drains were a pain, but I knew that I needed them.
I healed well. I lost more weight as the months passed and the swelling went down. I am now below weight due to being sick this past winter in TX. I am trying to eat more and gain some weight back. Who would have thunk that of me. I started out at 330 lbs and now weigh 137 lbs. I have a flat belly, all my old surgical scars were removed, and my small perky breasts are a joy.
Just remember to be good to yourself. eat and drink. Can you get a visiting nurse for a few weeks?
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hugs Monica