OT: my job update
linda- actually my boss is a man- and his daughter is the 11 yr old with cancer--as all of this was happening; his daughter was 3 hours from home having stem cell harvesting done-unsuccessfully too.... the gal who all this is about will realize someday taht i could have been a very true friend to her had she not liostened to the crap ....she and i got along well and i think she will someday realize how childish she was and how much hurt she has caused...meantime--i am going to get thru this...it just hurts.....
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
Margo, I am so glad that you are still employed. That is one hurdle you got over. I know that you are a strong woman and will jump all the other hurdles that you are facing. Just make sure that you keep your faith and do what is in front of you to do. Leave the results to God and the good will prevail. You left the results to Him for this situation and look~He came through for you.
I truly believe in the old saying that it is easier to get a job when you have a job. They know that you are employable and look for that. There is another job out there with the name of Margo on it and that is the one that is meant for you. It may not be the bank but it is something. I know it!
It is wise to hold your tongue while you are there. I too would just sit and do my work and talk of nothing but the weather and work. If someone tries to get you to say something (and I think they will) I would just tell them that you are busy doing your work. BUT~and there is always a but isn't there?~on my last day of work there I would have my say and make sure that everyone heard it too. Just my own opinion............
I am proud of you, my friend, and you handled the whole situation like the lady that you are. I amsending love and hugs to you...........
I truly believe in the old saying that it is easier to get a job when you have a job. They know that you are employable and look for that. There is another job out there with the name of Margo on it and that is the one that is meant for you. It may not be the bank but it is something. I know it!
It is wise to hold your tongue while you are there. I too would just sit and do my work and talk of nothing but the weather and work. If someone tries to get you to say something (and I think they will) I would just tell them that you are busy doing your work. BUT~and there is always a but isn't there?~on my last day of work there I would have my say and make sure that everyone heard it too. Just my own opinion............
I am proud of you, my friend, and you handled the whole situation like the lady that you are. I amsending love and hugs to you...........
It's not what you gather, but what you scatter
that tells what kind of life you have lived.
Be Strong!! 
JeanB
Good to hear you are still gainfully employed, Margo.
This will work out. Maybe a new job is in your near future; who knows...?? Hang in there and trust in your good will and capability to deal with all life has hoisted upon you.
YOU CAN DO IT! YOU CAN DO IT! Rise above all the bad and enjoy the fresh air.
Hugs,
Kathi
Glad you are still employed; I was worried about you today, but talked to Brenda and she told me, and then I read this ... I was not doing much online reading due to migraine today (and then I had to go to work, which meant having to look at the computer anyway).
I have had to deal with some people I didn't like and fortunately, was able to get away from them by finding another job (in my case, very far away ... in other cases, they got fired ... so good for me). In one case, the managing editor finally ticked off the publisher and got fired; we butted heads many times and he lied about me to my editor; my editor always asked me what happened and I told the truth. Eventually, as I said, he ticked off the publisher, got fired, and everyone saw him for the lying ******* he really was, and I was vindicated. My editor knew I was right at that point and apologized to me, but I was never in her doghouse; she had kept an eye on him from that point on because other people's versions of the episode corroborated mine, and I had been there long enough, and she trusted me. But before then, I was always the one who had to escape, and the first time, I escaped 1,500 miles to Montana. Talk about going a long way to get away from someone! I hope you don't have to do that (although I know you want to go to Hawaii!)
Margo, hang in there ... I hope your mental health day helped your frame of mind. I know times have been tough for you and wish I could help you out somehow. Here's my love to you and a cyberhug.
I have had to deal with some people I didn't like and fortunately, was able to get away from them by finding another job (in my case, very far away ... in other cases, they got fired ... so good for me). In one case, the managing editor finally ticked off the publisher and got fired; we butted heads many times and he lied about me to my editor; my editor always asked me what happened and I told the truth. Eventually, as I said, he ticked off the publisher, got fired, and everyone saw him for the lying ******* he really was, and I was vindicated. My editor knew I was right at that point and apologized to me, but I was never in her doghouse; she had kept an eye on him from that point on because other people's versions of the episode corroborated mine, and I had been there long enough, and she trusted me. But before then, I was always the one who had to escape, and the first time, I escaped 1,500 miles to Montana. Talk about going a long way to get away from someone! I hope you don't have to do that (although I know you want to go to Hawaii!)
Margo, hang in there ... I hope your mental health day helped your frame of mind. I know times have been tough for you and wish I could help you out somehow. Here's my love to you and a cyberhug.
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