OT: my job update
i still have a job...will be written up- rec'd an email to tell me that yesterday--i really think that the people skills in that dept are lacking...
i applied online for a job at a very nearby bank yesterday- they are offering 40 hours with awesome bennies after only 30 days- would be great ...we'll see...i'm hoping that the adage of finding a job while you have one works! i do banking well so we shall see.....
i truly appreciate the prayers and concerns of all of you and am sorry that i didn't post last nite- i am succumbing to the stresses finally and it isn't pretty...just entirely too much since april of 2005 and i am about at the bottom.....
this last thing at work teaches me that i will sit at my desk and only speak when spoken to --and the two topics about which i will speak will be the work task that i am performing and the weather. nothing of any other nature will come from my lips...no matter how sincere anyone seems in tehir conversation. there are at least two ppl ( of the 5 of us) who "tattled and misconstrued" my words to the drama queen.
i have spoken to a few ppl who think that my boss could use a visit from the ACLU. however; due to the situation with his own daughter i am trying very hard to see past his behavior of the other day.i do have to seriously be concerned about how he allows the tattling/school children behavior to fester .
sitting next to the drama queen yesterday-read that : attention *****was very difficult. i survived! today; i am taking a mental health day off..and i am praying on this whole situation.
again. thanks for your concerns and prayers. it means so much.
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
(((margo))) i am happy that you still have your job and also wish you the best of luck to get another one and get away from that stress you are dealing with at work!!! along with your hubby being sick you sure don't need this added stress!!!!! i know exactly what you are going through believe me!!!! i amhere if you need me!!!
hugs
stress at work is one thing and stress at home is another and stress day to day...etc etc ...but add it all together and it just is too much and i am caving!!!!
i actually am feeling better now than i did an hour ago tho...and i know you know where i am at with this stuff from what you went thru with gary!!! thx!!!
i actually am feeling better now than i did an hour ago tho...and i know you know where i am at with this stuff from what you went thru with gary!!! thx!!!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
ummm....nope!!!! if i were i guess i wouldn't be where i am!!! things said were said in compassion but turned around to be malicious.....
had i meant to be maliocious i woulda really said what i felt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
had i meant to be maliocious i woulda really said what i felt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
Margo
Gosh, you'd think people would grow up and just do their job. Make good use of your mental health day and do something special for yourself.
It's not the end of your job to get written up - sure does **** you off though.
Give them your pretty smile and a toss of your head, talk about work and the weather - perfect plan.
As the old saying goes "don't let the *******s get you down".
Big kisses
Annette
Gosh, you'd think people would grow up and just do their job. Make good use of your mental health day and do something special for yourself.
It's not the end of your job to get written up - sure does **** you off though.
Give them your pretty smile and a toss of your head, talk about work and the weather - perfect plan.
As the old saying goes "don't let the *******s get you down".
Big kisses
Annette
Annette 
amen to all you wrote!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
problem is they are getting me down and i am fighting it.......i continue to gain strength from my sisters and brothers.... thx...i cherish your kisses!!!!!
problem is they are getting me down and i am fighting it.......i continue to gain strength from my sisters and brothers.... thx...i cherish your kisses!!!!!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
Hi Margo,
I've been where you are and it's not a nice place - especially when you have enough problems at home.
Hang in there Sweetie - all will work out. If the bank job doesn't, keep looking - it's not worth stay in an unhealthy environment for any longer than necessary.
Don't quit your job - it might take time for the right one to come along, but it will! It took me over a year, but eventually I landed the job that I dreamed of and am so happy.
Hugs
Maggie
I've been where you are and it's not a nice place - especially when you have enough problems at home.
Hang in there Sweetie - all will work out. If the bank job doesn't, keep looking - it's not worth stay in an unhealthy environment for any longer than necessary.
Don't quit your job - it might take time for the right one to come along, but it will! It took me over a year, but eventually I landed the job that I dreamed of and am so happy.
Hugs
Maggie
maggie,,,, thank you!! just knowing that i am not really nuts and that i am a good person helps!!!!
i will continue to do my job to the best of my ability and pray for something else to come along...i wish i had seen the bank posting when it first went up-aug 20th--i am so surprised that it isn't filled- it's hard to get hired at 40 hours anywhere!!!!!
one of my first reactions was to want to walk out but that would give the drama queen the satisfaction and i am a fighter.....soooooooooo
it's so strange- i know that when you put two ppl together in a room you will always have personality issues- and i know that i need to be a big girl..what i cannot tolerate is that i was called a liar and told i was rude and that my super screamed at me in a very unbehooving manner....
ah well....
hugs and prayers appreciated!!!!
i will continue to do my job to the best of my ability and pray for something else to come along...i wish i had seen the bank posting when it first went up-aug 20th--i am so surprised that it isn't filled- it's hard to get hired at 40 hours anywhere!!!!!
one of my first reactions was to want to walk out but that would give the drama queen the satisfaction and i am a fighter.....soooooooooo
it's so strange- i know that when you put two ppl together in a room you will always have personality issues- and i know that i need to be a big girl..what i cannot tolerate is that i was called a liar and told i was rude and that my super screamed at me in a very unbehooving manner....
ah well....
hugs and prayers appreciated!!!!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
Hello Margo,
I am confident that you will leave there for a better job with your head held high. In the meantime it may help to know that you boss is drowning in her own stresses and insecurities. You can rise above it and this too shall pass. I'm sending an inspirational movie for you and everyone.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sN_LPTNQEqM
Hang in there, Linda
I am confident that you will leave there for a better job with your head held high. In the meantime it may help to know that you boss is drowning in her own stresses and insecurities. You can rise above it and this too shall pass. I'm sending an inspirational movie for you and everyone.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sN_LPTNQEqM
Hang in there, Linda
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