AND SO IT CONTINUES....

ok i am sitting here waiting for my laundry to get dry....my cell phone rings...its diane...says she was thinking...(OMG)...so she says to me..."why don't you and rick rent the little house and also the basement?? it would save you the moving to a new place and also you could use the basement for storage of your things" i told her i would mention it to rick see what he says...i get off the phone with her and call rick right away....had to leave a voice mail for him to call me back soon as he can...well he just called me and i told him all this news...he said oh really when did all this go down? i said this morning she called me thinking...he said "OMG" so he said he didn't think that would work out...i told him well i wasn't happy with that either...but...if we get turned down from the apartment complex then MAYBE we would do that. just not happy still being here with all her drama and the not so much privacy ya know...

just needed to vent some get it off my chest before i blow a head gasket....thanks for listening yet again!!!

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Oh Darlin, You KNOW that is not the way to go. Look how much stress this has put you through in a short time, it will only get worse. Distance yourself from them. You and Rick need time together to cement your bond..If that apartment doesn't go through there will be something else out there for you, Don't Settle !!

hi jean!!! i know that is not what i want!!! i am just getting more frustrated by the day with all the talk about no money to pay this bill or that bill and takingout yet ANOTHER loan to get caught up!!!!!!!!! we wnat out of here and we will get out!! just hope and pray that we get this apartment!!!! heck even our friends can't come over here because of his step dad!!!! can't make noise because he has to get up early for work...but its ok to make noise while WE are sleeping when he leaves in the morning!!!! oh we want out for sure!!!!!

thanks for answering!!!!

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ps you are sure doing YOUR thing now!!! WOOHOOOO!!! YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!

Judy,
I agree with Jeane,
Dont do it!!!!! You need to get away from her. She is a moocher from the word go. Carla

HI CARLA!!! yeah i know we need to get away from here soon!!!! i love it here but damit i want some space of my OWN!!!!!!! every time they go in and out the door they have to stop and look see what we are doing....gezzzz like we are doing something wrong here....thanks for answering!!

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Judy, you have come to far in your life to settle. Don't ever settle for something less than what you want and what you deserve no matter what it is. The sky is the limit for you and you don't want or deserve less than the sky. It may sound like an easy fix if the apartment complex doesn't come through but there is going to be another answer. I promise you that. Just ask God the move that you are to take and He will answer you. It may not be what you want to hear or the time frame that you want but it will happen. That I can promise you. Remember that God has no calendar or clocks and so it doesn't always come in our time but it always comes in His time.

hi brenda!!!! YES!!!!! i am woman hear me roar!!!!!!!! i will not settle for that little dinky house even with the basement here for my things!!!!!! we want OUT and we WILL get OUT!!!!!!!! i just went over to the house and looked at it again...NO WAY WILL I MOVE IN THERE!!!! IT IS WAAAAAYYYYYYY TO SMALL!!!!!

thanks for answering

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Judy,

It's all been said by those before me, don't settle. . .  take deep breaths, pray for and believe that it will be provided.

Hugs, Laureen

hi laureen!!! i am not gonna settle for this living condition!!!! i want MY own place with my guy!!! away from his leaching mother!!! she does have a heart of gold but damit i want out of here!!! its not all her fault that jerry got her in this mess but she just doesn't listen to the help i offer her in getting things caught up!!!! it get tiring after awhile to hear all her money woes....

thanks for answering me!!

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You know the answer, of course, is to get away and make a life for yourself. You're not going to be happy living that close to her. If that apartment doesn't work out, look for another.