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Thank-you all for your wonderful thoughts, wise advice , prayers and "hide out offers".
I called in sick at work today because my mom had a doctor appt.( and I just didn't want to mess with having to make up the missed hours) She was to take a senior transportation service there, I would meet her there and take her home after the appointment. When I got there and asked what room she was in they said she never showed up. Long story short, the service never picked her up. Grrrr so I got them to get her in tomorrow, but there is no way I can take her. No sooner had I gotten to her apartment and sat down when her phone rang, it was my daughter (Liz) looking for me in a panic. She was bleeding so off I went to the emergency room with her for 6 hours. As of now things OK with the baby, we just don't know where this will go. She was put back on progestrone and she will take it easy for a few days..
I had a meeting with Pastor and her Husband last night. They will call Chuck in for a meeting on Saturday morning.Pastor thinks she should tell him, I think I should. To me it is very "15 year old" to have someone else break up for you. Her husband( the police officer) says he doesn't think this will come as a big surprise to Chuck, Chuck has said to him that since I won't marry him , maybe he should move on.. I still don't think it will be that easy, but he did calm me down a bit. I have been getting everything out of here that is mine. Chuck just called me from Arizona being his super sweet side. NO I will not change my mind, DONT WORRY. I did hang in this too long, but there is nothing to go back to here in my opinion. My love for him is dead. I won't hate him, unless he gets stupid but I can't wait to have my life back. I have a shelter lined up and phone numbers in my pocket. If it should get to the point where I would feel the need to get further away that is in the plan too.I will call Margo if only to leave a message so you know all is well. I will be checking in tomorrow AM, then I won't be around a computer until Tuesday.
Blessings and more thanks than I can say
I called in sick at work today because my mom had a doctor appt.( and I just didn't want to mess with having to make up the missed hours) She was to take a senior transportation service there, I would meet her there and take her home after the appointment. When I got there and asked what room she was in they said she never showed up. Long story short, the service never picked her up. Grrrr so I got them to get her in tomorrow, but there is no way I can take her. No sooner had I gotten to her apartment and sat down when her phone rang, it was my daughter (Liz) looking for me in a panic. She was bleeding so off I went to the emergency room with her for 6 hours. As of now things OK with the baby, we just don't know where this will go. She was put back on progestrone and she will take it easy for a few days..
I had a meeting with Pastor and her Husband last night. They will call Chuck in for a meeting on Saturday morning.Pastor thinks she should tell him, I think I should. To me it is very "15 year old" to have someone else break up for you. Her husband( the police officer) says he doesn't think this will come as a big surprise to Chuck, Chuck has said to him that since I won't marry him , maybe he should move on.. I still don't think it will be that easy, but he did calm me down a bit. I have been getting everything out of here that is mine. Chuck just called me from Arizona being his super sweet side. NO I will not change my mind, DONT WORRY. I did hang in this too long, but there is nothing to go back to here in my opinion. My love for him is dead. I won't hate him, unless he gets stupid but I can't wait to have my life back. I have a shelter lined up and phone numbers in my pocket. If it should get to the point where I would feel the need to get further away that is in the plan too.I will call Margo if only to leave a message so you know all is well. I will be checking in tomorrow AM, then I won't be around a computer until Tuesday.
Blessings and more thanks than I can say
JeanB
jean i read your post last night and didn't respond because i didn't know what to say that the others have already said to you....i am scared to death for you sweetie!!!! please be very careful!!!!!!! i have worried about you and that relationship for a long time now....please get out before he comes home!!!
keep in touch with someone on here so we all don't worry ourselves to death!!!
love and hugs
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.... Have had you in my prayers and thoughts today. Am so glad to hear of your plans. HOWEVER, it is NOT 15 year old ish to let the pastor & hubby tell chuck. This is not a 15 year old style break up. Please, don't get lulled into a situation just to save face. Consider them as mediators. No contact is best. IF you do feel you need to do it.. Have someone with you. Don't meet him alone, no matter how nice he is. Will continue to pray and will pray for Chuck too. HUGGS to you... Millie
Dear Jean...listen to your "gut"...it knows what you should do....listen to your heart to give you the courage to do what you should to take care of yourself and your family.......listen to all the love that surrounds you and enfolds you....and the prayers being said for you and your family. Love, Marti
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JeanB, thank goodness you're okay for now and have a plan. I, too, read your post last night and had no other words than what had been offered to say. Please know that I have had you in my thoughts and prayers today, and will keep you there in the days to come. No one deserves to live in a state of fear like you have.
Be strong, your sisters have your back!
Be strong, your sisters have your back!
Susan
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Lots of hugs to you. Be coragous and do what you've been telling us you know is right. That first step is the hardest but the rewards further down the road will be tremendous.
Keeping you in my prayers.
Lots of hugs to you. Be coragous and do what you've been telling us you know is right. That first step is the hardest but the rewards further down the road will be tremendous.
Keeping you in my prayers.
Hugs! Donna L (finding_me) - I just know I'm here somewhere...
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Jean, my ex kept up a false front for a long time to our Pastor and the Deacons. They did not see and hear what he was truly like. Do what you have to do but remember you owe him nothing...you gave him everything when you were together and that was not enough. My ex would calm down right before blowing up. Stay safe, please.
Best wishes to your daughter also.
Alice
Best wishes to your daughter also.
Alice
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Oh Jean, I am so glad that so far everything seems to be good. I am in agreement that you shouldn't tell him. But then you know what is best for you. We do and will respect your decision. I am continuing with the prayers and don't forget that we are here and we are darn good prayer warriors. Keep us posted the best that you can. Sending you big hugs and lots of love.
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