I AM NOW FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ALOHA karen!!!!!!! thankyou so much for your kind words and let me tell you i am not making any mistakes here with rick!! his family is bonkers with their money and rick is so differnet in handling money nothing like they are at all!!! he is like me wanting a stable relationship where its a 50/50 partnership and we both love the same things even with our age difference we are so very compatible....we will be out of here soon and living a good life together!!!! i am so happy tonight i am beaming like a lighthouse!!!!!! LOL

i am sure if i was still the "old" judy i would still be in that god awful relationship yet...but the new me has stood her ground and won freedom and is happy once more!!!!! life is good!!!!!!

hugs and love

Judy, I am so glad that part of your life is done and over with. Now it is on to bigger and better things. You are free now to do what you want to do to improve yourself and your life and you are a strong enough woman to do it too. I am happy for you since the happiness is just coming out in all of your words. I ask that God continue to bless you and all of the things that are in your future.

As for your sister, I would say that you are much better off not having her in your life. I just can't imagine a sister doing something like that. It takes nerve and did she think that you or anyone else wouldn't find out about it? Just remember what goes around comes around and she will get in the end just what she does to others.

hi brenda!!!! thankyou so much for all your prayers!!!! life is going to be so much better now for me i can't believe it!!! all that is left is our gettingout of here and into our own place and then life will be complete for us both!!!! i am woman hear me roar has been my motto for years and now its finally happening!!!!

and yes my sister is a back stabber and i will never forgive her for a long long time!!!!! oh i can't wait til she tries to talk to me and i ignore her...but i want rick to block her so i can't even see her online...mom is just as upset with her as i am....even my brother that calls me an idiot is pissed at her too!!!!! and you are so right!! she will get hers!!!! (and i can't wait lol)

again thankyou ever so much for being here for me!!!

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Congratulations, Judy!

I'm so happy you can put this behind you now.  Your future is bright and filled with promise.  Take care of yourself and enjoy all the fresh beginnings you have brought into your life.

Hugs,

Kathi

thankyou kathi!!!!! i can't believe how much happier i am now that i am free from all that BS from back home....life here in ohio is wonderful!!!!! its just going to get better and better as time goes on for us here....

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Whew! FINALLY PEACE!!!
I was so happy to read this post today! Whenever I log on to the site, I always look for your posts first, to keep up with ya! Now I can relax and know that you are finally gonna have a good life!
Enjoy that celebration dinner..its been a long time comin!

Blessings
Betsy

hi betsy!!! talk about relaxing...LOL i am so at ease right now its unbelieveable!!!!! i am so happy my life is just begining for me and i have a wonderful guy beside me that supports me in everything i do!!!!

we went to dinner at the texas roadhouse and had a steak dinner and it was good too!!! (yes i brought half home lol) we got home and he told me that i was now officially his forever more!!! i about cried with happiness!!!! life is so good right now for me and it will only get better when we get out of here and into our own place...which will be soon we hope!!

thanks again for all the prayers and thoughts betsy!!

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Judy,

I didn't know the story and am only piecing it together now from the emails, but I do know how you feel - I was i a verbally abusive and emotionally abusive marriage, too.  To be free is the most wonderful feeling !  Congratulations!  And may you look forward.  and be happy!

Shelia

(((sheila))) i am sorry that you were in that kind of relationship also....glad that you got out and are ok!!!

its been a long time coming for this divorce and now it has happened and i am at peace and happy as all get out here with rick in ohio!!!!

thankyou ever so much!!

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Judy,
Don't know a lot about what's been going on but if you are happy then we are all happy for you! 

Just as a side note.  I'll be having my surgery 9/4 - that's the same day I became single again 19 years ago.  How's that for a lucky day!!!!!!!!!!