I AM NOW FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hi laureen!!!! thanks so much!!!! yes the future is bright and happy for once in my life!!!!

thanks again!!!

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WOOOOOHOOOOO party time!!

Our prayers have been answered!! What a load off your shoulders!
Now you can sit back and enjoy life once again. I am so happy for you!!

His daughter is insane!! Your sister...I wouldn't trust ever again!! That was really low...how could she do such a thing!!!

Love ya.....hugs....connie d

    and yes!!!!!!!!! its party time!!!! LOL

the shoulders/back are feeling a lighter load today thats for sure!!!! so glad its finally over and done with!!!!

as for his daughter..i about spit in her face when i walked by her on my way out of the court room!!!! what a little biotch she is!!! and get this...my mom..her grandma called her sunday night to let her know she was letting me into the house so i could get a part of the old pc i forgot...she went balistic on her big time!!!!!! told her that that is ALL i can take too!!!! like i wanted anything else!!!! the biotch!!!!! mom is so upset over her and bonnie its unreal!!! almost as pissed as i am over it all!!! as for my sister...it will be a very long time before i speak to her again!!!!!!!!! in fact rick is going to block her so she can't try to talk to me!!!! i asked him to do this for me....i can't believe her!!!!!!!!!!! and i trusted her to keep it all confidential too!!!! another biotch thats for sure!!!  (sorry i took her to dinner for her bday!!)

thanks again connie for all your suppport!!!!

love and hugs back!!!

Great news!  I can also relate to the soaring feeling of freedom from an abusive husband.  Good on ya, mate. 
Carmel Valley Linda

thanks linda!!!! so many of us have had an abusive husband...i had 2!!! no more for me!!! rick is wonderful to me and i am so thankful we met and hit it off other than on the internet!!!!! life is sooooooooooo good now!!!!

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Judy:

Glad this is resolved and you have this stress out of your life. Too bad your sister (is this the one I met in GR that one time?) hurt you like that. I had a feeling that Gary didn't give a damn what happened because he was not mentally competent to do anything.

You have been working toward this since your WLS ... your surgery changed so much in life, I could see that from the day I met you in the hospital, you were a changed woman, and he couldn't keep up (and he creeped me out!). Congrats on getting your new life! Now enjoy!

hi eileen!! yes i have been working on this since WLS and also before was also thinking about leaving him....but then who wanted a fat girl??? rick said he saw me before the WLS and loved me even then but still...i stayed with him...but now i am free of him and his abusive words and his  biotch of a daughter!!!! not sure about the boys tho...they remain neutral towards me i think....

yes thats my sister you met....only one i used to have....

no gary had no feelings whatsoever i think too because his mind isn't right...i hope his mother is happy its over too because we got into it just a few days before christmas when she told me to leave him and start over....

thankyou eileen for being a good friend to me!!! and yes i know he "creeped you out!!! lol he did that to alot of people....

off to my new job now and then tonight celebrate with the man that loves me and i love him!!!!

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Oh Hon, I am so SOOO happy for you. You have been under so much stress with  that situation for so long I do believe your feet are 2 feet off the ground.. New location, new man, new job. look at you go girl. Blessings

jean i am still flying high!!!!!!!! i am so happy i could burst!!!! this stress is lifted and now i can be free to love rick even more so!!!! he is so good to me and treats me with respect and makes me laugh and oh he makes my world go round!!!!!!!!!!!!

thanks so much jean for being here for me!!!

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Aloha little sister.....First post I read this morning....and what good news it is! Just imagine that you have thrown off chains....LONG chains...and now you are free to create the life you want. And.....you are doing it in a new and better body, too.

Live, love and be happy. Just be very careful NOT to fall back into an abusive relationship. In my experience with clients when I was a practicing psychologist, women tend to repeat patterns over and over because they are "familiar". I think you know your patterns now and won't let that happen again, but I do worry a bit about the family you are living with even if your honey is a super guy. Sending you a gentle hug of happiness for you.

Aloha nui loa,

Maui Karen